Originally posted by Selenial
= shockingly sexually active from age 14-15
Originally posted by DarthAnt66
Gonna say 35% of people in my grade are sexually active.
Last year I used to have a girl into me but kept asking me to go to her house and do shit (she lived down the street).
Eventually she stopped talking to me because I refused to go due to more important friends encouraging me to stay moral.
Originally posted by Selenial
Well nerd vs Jock isn't always the worst, though it is the stereotypical one.There was this Bi kid in my year, came out at age 12 and was very.., open about his sexual experiences. Cocky as sin, real 4chan kinda guy, but he got alienated by everyone because of his orientation and the fact he was so open about it.
Only had a couple friends, probably my biggest regret is how I reacted to him, blanked him most of the time because he was kinda scary.
Probably the person I admired the most, looking back on it, since he really didn't give a flying **** who cared about his life. Those are the worst though, people bullied for actual life choices, which is the issue you really do see in the world today from what I gather.He turned out great but there was a girl in the year above who killed herself from manic depression... High school was hard
There was however a huge divide between Jock and Nerd at my school, but I think it was the fact that the Jocks started partying at a young age and were shockingly sexually active from age 14-15, and that Seperated things more than bullying ever would
Meanwhile at my school the popular kids would "bum" while waiting outside classrooms. It's.... pretty much exactly what it sounds like. :I
Also holy shit about that girl. 🙁
Originally posted by SelenialI came out as bi at age 16 and didn't feel the need to tell everyone about it, so was that an example of him being alienated for being bi, or for being an attention whore?
Well nerd vs Jock isn't always the worst, though it is the stereotypical one.There was this Bi kid in my year, came out at age 12 and was very.., open about his sexual experiences. Cocky as sin, real 4chan kinda guy, but he got alienated by everyone because of his orientation and the fact he was so open about it.
Only had a couple friends, probably my biggest regret is how I reacted to him, blanked him most of the time because he was kinda scary.
Probably the person I admired the most, looking back on it, since he really didn't give a flying **** who cared about his life.There was however a huge divide between Jock and Nerd at my school, but I think it was the fact that the Jocks started partying at a young age and were shockingly sexually active from age 14-15, and that Seperated things more than bullying ever would
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying being ostracized or stigmatized for being LGBT doesn't exist. It definitely does, and I've experienced some of it in the workplace after high school.
See, in my high school being a nerd or geek didn't imply you were sexually inactive.
Originally posted by NemeBro
I came out as bi at age 16 and didn't feel the need to tell everyone about it, so was that an example of him being alienated for being bi, or for being an attention whore?Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying being ostracized or stigmatized for being LGBT doesn't exist. It definitely does, and I've experienced some of it in the workplace after high school.
See, in my high school being a nerd or geek didn't imply you were sexually inactive.
Originally posted by NemeBro
I came out as bi at age 16 and didn't feel the need to tell everyone about it, so was that an example of him being alienated for being bi, or for being an attention whore?Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying being ostracized or stigmatized for being LGBT doesn't exist. It definitely does, and I've experienced some of it in the workplace after high school.
See, in my high school being a nerd or geek didn't imply you were sexually inactive.
Both, definitely. I think people would have been OK with him being Bi, my best friend was (Is) lesbian and I didn't care. But he did talk to me about his first Gay experience in our theatre studies class and go through reasons why he was out of everyone's league (he really wasn't) on a frequent basis, so that plays a larger part.
But yeh, the nerds/geeks had a couple sexually active people but on the whole, weren't. They weren't great at talking to girls either.
The kind of people who'd say a guy fancied a girl because they were friends, used to constantly say that my brother liked my best friend at the time, which was odd because I was sure he was gay. And she was lesbian. So y'know.
Originally posted by Nephthys
Meanwhile at my school the popular kids would "bum" while waiting outside classrooms. It's.... pretty much exactly what it sounds like. :IAlso holy shit about that girl. 🙁
Yeh, she jumped in front of a train.
There's a garden still at the school dedicated to her, I still visit it and lay flowers on the anniversary, a lot of us who still live close by do and go out afterwards to celebrate her life 🙁
Everyone loved her and she had no idea, she couldn't see the beauty in herself that everyone else did.