Originally posted by Dogbert
My best friend told me on the phone she was in love with e, and what's wrose is i'm in love with her too! On top of that, she is in love with her BF too, and he's one of my closest freinds!*steady stream of profanity*
I'd say back off. Unless you secretly hate him, you can't do that sort of thing to a friend. Its like a rule. Just let "nature" take its course and wait until they break up, if she really is in love with you, then that wont take to long. Then talk to your friend (her (ex)boyfriend) about you going out with the girl who loves you...
Originally posted by Ken Kenobi
First off Snoop D-O-Double Dogbert, make sure her "love" isn't just the kind of love that exists between friends.I've heard women tell guys they love them before, but only mean that they love them as a person, not Love them in a more than friends way.
If she truly loves you, then tell her to think about this and come to the best decision for herself, don't be greedy. If she chooses her BF it will hurt, that's for sure, but it's her choice.
No matter what though, this is going to change your friendship with her BF. You can still be friends but it will be awkward for you whether she chooses you or him.
"I'm in love with you, and I have feelings for you too"
That constitue as non-friend love?
Originally posted by Dogbert
"I'm in love with you, and I have feelings for you too"That constitue as non-friend love?
Sounds good enough to me. 😄
Well, now comes the point where you tell her to search her feelings about you and her current squeeze. She can't love you both in the same way, it's either one or the other.
Try not to pressure her into choosing you, it's her choice, 100%.