I posted in the wrong forum! haha My first mistake here.
I think the worst to me would be the whole
ANAKIN: You are so beautiful!
PADME: It's only because I'm so in love . . .
ANAKIN: No, it's because I'm so in love with you.
PADME: So love has blinded you?
ANAKIN: Well, that's not exactly what I meant . . .
PADME: But it's probably true!
I know this is from Eu but applies here well. Luke marries mara jade. The NJO is more open minded. The supression of feelings was what made many young jedi turn to the dark side, because they were kinda unfamiliar with them. I think the experience Luke had with the dark side, open his mind a bit, cause you know, the sith use their feelings to fuel their power.