Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Sy, you said he'd consider leaving you if you had a boob job because he loves you just the way you are, right?That's awesome, but what if the way you are isn't the way you want to be and one of the ways you wanna change that, is by getting a boob job? He would be leaving you for being who you wanted to be, despite saying he loved you for it.
A guy shouldn't love a girl for the way she is, because HE likes it. He should love her for the way she is no matter what. The way he likes you may not be the way you like yourself. And if you aren't truly yourself, how can he ever love the true you?
More over, if he loves you for the inside, why does it matter what you do to the outside? Should matter none.
(That whole post wasn't aimed at you Sy, just first part. Which was just a question. To clear that up).
Personally? The reason I like decent sized boobs on CERTAIN BODY TYPES is because I'm a fan of the female figure as a whole. I genuinely think they can add to a figure tremendously. It's a physical attraction to me and I won't ever have any one telling me I'm wrong for liking something that, by chance, alot of idiot guys do.
I like boobs, so what? I also like the woman inside more. So surely my physical attractions can be overlooked.
-AC
As much as you piss me off in the majority, I have to applaud that post. I understand where you're coming from with the leaving me etc, but I think the main reason he said it was to make a point. It's more the principle, he's trying to say he loves me as I am, and in saying something so harsh as that he would leave me if I changed myself in a superficial manner he was trying to show how passionate he is about such an amendment. I understand his point of view, isn't that all that really matters?