Originally posted by Ronny
But do you find it at all disturbing that most men now-a-days would go with a woman because of her apperance no matter how much of a superficial ***** she was
That's how I was when I was 20. But I do find it very weird that they go out with these girls just for their ass-sets and their cleavage. I mean, most men who are around my age are incredibly shallow and have no respect for women. They think women are just playthings, and when they get bored of them they get rid of them.
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriYes, but i wouldn't start a relationship with him without knowing him well enough, if her were to be a compleate bastard i wouldnt think twice 😬
Is it not a bit contradictory Neera, that you are speaking about superficiality and not dwelling on physicality, yet you have a half naked dude in your sig and avvy for the sole purpose of ogling?-AC
Originally posted by HimoKunGuys like that piss me off ✅ the world should rid itself of them 😬
That's how I was when I was 20. But I do find it very weird that they go out with these girls just for their ass-sets and their cleavage. I mean, most men who are around my age are incredibly shallow and have no respect for women. They think women are just playthings, and when they get bored of them they get rid of them.
Originally posted by HimoKun
That's how I was when I was 20. But I do find it very weird that they go out with these girls just for their ass-sets and their cleavage. I mean, most men who are around my age are incredibly shallow and have no respect for women. They think women are just playthings, and when they get bored of them they get rid of them.
The way I see it, if it's casual sex and that is recognised both ways, what IS there to look for besides physicality?
If it's more, then of course it's gonna go deeper. No pun intended.
Whilst I agree that superficiality is lame, I'm not about to sit here and say it's wrong to appreciate the female figure. It's becoming way too much of a tabooed subject.
To be honest, I've found that girls respect it more if you're honest with them rather than saying "Nah I don't care about your boobs". Coz if the girl knows she's well endowed, she's gonna know you're looking and that you're lying if you say you're not (mostly).
A girl asked me that once, I said "Yeah apologies. But they are very nice, you wear them well." Things worked out for the better than if I said "WHAT?! No way!".
-AC
Back in the day, it seems that more people wanted to get with someone to lose their virginity.
Now, sex is so open and so free that alot of girls and guys have taken up the view of "Who needs relationships when I can just have sex alot?"
People like me, who have actually been in a loving relationship and endured some bad shit as a result, aren't looking to settled down yet or enter any major commitment so soon after.
Any route is good, be it commitment or casual sex, the key is honesty and respect. As long as both of these are involved, not much can go wrong.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriI hate casual sex 😬 I think if your willing to have sex with a person your willing to go into a deep relationship. Casual sex seems to me as just using the body as a toy.
The way I see it, if it's casual sex and that is recognised both ways, what IS there to look for besides physicality?If it's more, then of course it's gonna go deeper. No pun intended.
Whilst I agree that superficiality is lame, I'm not about to sit here and say it's wrong to appreciate the female figure. It's becoming way too much of a tabooed subject.
To be honest, I've found that girls respect it more if you're honest with them rather than saying "Nah I don't care about your boobs". Coz if the girl knows she's well endowed, she's gonna know you're looking and that you're lying if you say you're not (mostly).
A girl asked me that once, I said "Yeah apologies. But they are very nice, you wear them well." Things worked out for the better than if I said "WHAT?! No way!".
-AC