Like I said, he is a good person. He is really nice and loving when he is normal. It's only sometimes he gets this way and it's stupid. He does a lot for me but he needs to end this shit. I would never say or do anything to hurt him but he does it and yes, he apologizes after but he should take a second to think before he blows up so this doesn't happen. I wish he would just answer the phone. 🙁
This really sucks and I just can't stop crying here. I want to talk.
Originally posted by Lady_Jade
[B]Like I said, he is a good person. He is really nice and loving when he is normal. It's only sometimes he gets this way and it's stupid. He does a lot for me but he needs to end this shit. I would never say or do anything to hurt him but he does it and yes, he apologizes after but he should take a second to think before he blows up so this doesn't happen. I wish he would just answer the phone. 🙁This really sucks and I just can't stop crying here. I want to talk. [/B]
Add 3 years, 20 visits to the Hospital, and a few "I just fell of the horse" and you've got the EXACT speech that an abused wife gives 👆 Think about that.
trust me.....that's the EXACT speech.
~wickerman~
Originally posted by Wickerman
That's how it always starts though 😬~wickerman~
I know it is hard for other people to believe me because you guys don't know him but he wouldn't ever dare do that. Trust me. He just likes to say things that sting when he is upset because it makes him feel better but he doesn't ever get violent.
Well thanks for all your thoughts everyone (even you crazy guys 😛)
I finally got a hold of him and I tried to explain what I meant. He just thinks I am making it up as I am talking to him, which I am not. I never said the lake was boring with intentions of saying that he was boring and just like I suspected, that is what he thinks I was trying to say. I just didn't feel like going to the lake again and sitting, that's all. Then he made me feel like shit by saying that he didn't want to see me today because I am boring and he was being so cocky about it and it hurt a lot. I begged for almost an hour for him to come and see me and he is on his way. I would never say anything to hurt him and he says a lot of things that hurt me and now when he says stuff he gets more cocky and says he is saying it because that is his opinion and I know it isn't. Thank you guys so much for listening. I hope things get better. 🙂
^ Yeah I do understand that but he isn't like this even half the time. It's just once in a blue moon that this happens but he gets mean. I am not trying to make it seem like he's the bad guy because he isn't a bad person it's just that he needs to keep himself in check instead of exploding over something he thinks I said.