I have cheated on boyfriends before. So, the question of "would I" is moot. Would I do it again? No. As others have said..karma is a *****. Beyond that, I'm not 22 anymore. Having affairs no longer makes sense to me. I'm more concerned with being happy, and cheating on your boyfriend doesn't help/prove/solve anything.
The way I see it, to add to that, is as though cheating is an occurance for a person who doesn't know what they want. Or they want two things they can't have at the same time.
My advice would be, don't commit if you aren't sure if it's what you want and if you DO want it, say no to the quick fling.
No matter how long you've been in the relationship, if you're reasonably happy and just bored in the bedroom, no amount of lack of sexual spark warrants going off and f*cking some other person. There are ways to spice things up, and if the marriage/relationship IS ruined as a result, end it before you play the field.
Cheating is just so unneccessary and needless.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
The way I see it, to add to that, is as though cheating is an occurance for a person who doesn't know what they want. Or they want two things they can't have at the same time.My advice would be, don't commit if you aren't sure if it's what you want and if you DO want it, say no to the quick fling.
No matter how long you've been in the relationship, if you're reasonably happy and just bored in the bedroom, no amount of lack of sexual spark warrants going off and f*cking some other person. There are ways to spice things up, and if the marriage/relationship IS ruined as a result, end it before you play the field.
Cheating is just so unneccessary and needless.
-AC
ok AC.. not trying to pick a fight here.. just trying to get this straight..
in another thread you said:
I'm missing way too many meetings.Since when did a female giving oral sex to a male equate to her partaking in the carnal act of penetration?
I missed the memo I do believe.
-AC
ok so do you mean to tell me if your gf/wife went down on another guy while you were with her but didnt actually have sex as in 'penetration' that thats ok?? i dont get the logic
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Probably not, I personally think that Honesty is a virtue, but I although kno that I am very bad in controling myself....it'S sad but true....now I'd say no but I can't really tell what I will do if such a situation comes up.....
And there are circumstances that will hurt someone anyways. Lets say you find you are in love with another woman and she with you...so you either hurt her and yourself or your wife (g/f) and possibly children...it'S not always black and white.....and even though PVS won't agree it'S surely not immoral to do it.....
Originally posted by bilb
ok so do you mean to tell me if your gf/wife went down on another guy while you were with her but didnt actually have sex as in 'penetration' that thats ok?? i dont get the logic😖
Well considering I was talking about how oral sex doesn't constitute losing your virginity with no connection to fidelity, I'd suggest you note context next time.
-AC
Cheating is stupid I mean theres no good reason to do it if your doing it at all just break up with the person don't be greedy, plus if you want to have sex with someone else that badly go out with them! it's just so dirty and everyone that has done it always says I wish I hadn't so why do it in the first place.