Nope, never. Even if I was in a relationship with a person that I didnt like and the person wanting to have the affair could very possibly be the one I spend the rest of my life with, I would still do right by the person Im in the relationship with and either break up with them first or take other action, situation pending.
Originally posted by Whirlysplatt
I'm adopted my adopted dad is my real dad as he never beat the shit out of me at and before three months old
Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
I have no idea what you're saying.
He's saying he has had the legal rights to adopt his own dad since he was three months old, but he never turned him into a "real" adopted father until he squared off with him man-to-man. Even if it was three-month old adoptor getting beaten senseless by a full-grown adult adoptee. 🙂
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Well considering I was talking about how oral sex doesn't constitute losing your virginity with no connection to fidelity, I'd suggest you note context next time.-AC
ok maybe i should have included context.. my point is tho.. isnt sex is sex is sex? like i said.. not trying to pick a fight, i just dont understand the logic here
Originally posted by bilb
ok maybe i should have included context.. my point is tho.. isnt sex is sex is sex? like i said.. not trying to pick a fight, i just dont understand the logic here
Well maybe because you're comparing two drastically different comments about two drastically different subjects. Let's take a step back.
My comment about oral sex not qualifying for a girl losing her virginity was on a topic about what constitutes virginity. It had nothing at all to do with fidelity, at all. Don't see why you're making the connection.
This is a thread about cheating being wrong. Why are you applying the above comment to a completely unrelated thread?
Second: To me, sex is sex outside of a relationship, when I'm single. I don't lie or promise girls anything in order to get action, I'm not that hard up for it. If I'm in a relationship, I'd never think about straying and if I ever did (as a result of...I dunno, internal relationship problems) I'd make an attempt to sort out the problems first and foremost and if they fail, end the relationship. I'd never cheat.
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Well maybe because you're comparing two drastically different comments about two drastically different subjects. Let's take a step back.My comment about oral sex not qualifying for a girl losing her virginity was on a topic about what constitutes virginity. It had nothing at all to do with fidelity, at all. Don't see why you're making the connection.
This is a thread about cheating being wrong. Why are you applying the above comment to a completely unrelated thread?
Second: To me, sex is sex outside of a relationship, when I'm single. I don't lie or promise girls anything in order to get action, I'm not that hard up for it. If I'm in a relationship, I'd never think about straying and if I ever did (as a result of...I dunno, internal relationship problems) I'd make an attempt to sort out the problems first and foremost and if they fail, end the relationship. I'd never cheat.
-AC
ok just trying to get it straight in my own head is all 🙂
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
No problem...Still a little puzzled as to why you took one of my completely unrelated OTF replies and brought it here though.
-AC
sorry i didnt mean to stir anything up.. i just saw your replies in both threads withing minutes of each other & went.. huh? thats all 🙂