The Value of 'I Love You'

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The Value of 'I Love You'

I dont use the words 'I Love You' very often or lightly. Only 2 people have ever really been loved by me... My brother and my ex. I was wondering how much value you guys put in these words.

Only 2 girls would have ever recieved those words from me👆
Takes the meaning away otherwise...

Originally posted by ShapedByWords
I dont use the words 'I Love You' very often or lightly. Only 2 people have ever really been loved by me... My brother and my ex. I was wondering how much value you guys put in these words.
I guess it depends on how much you trust the person who is saying it....sometimes it can be used just becuase people are caught up in the first passion of love...I used it once, but I don't think I'll use it again for a long time, untill I'm completely sure..

Originally posted by Sir Mist
Only 2 girls would have ever recieved those words from me👆
Takes the meaning away otherwise...

✅ I agree. I have come across people who throw around 'I love yous' like candy on Halloween. I think if people stopped and thought about what it means to LOVE someone they wouldn't say it as much.

The last guy who told me... 'i love you' broke my heart.. i dont velive in love anymore...It just uses you then spits you out when its done

Originally posted by Fianna
I guess it depends on how much you trust the person who is saying it....sometimes it can be used just becuase people are caught up in the first passion of love...I used it once, but I don't think I'll use it again for a long time, untill I'm completely sure..

It is always best to know for sure. ✅ Just so you know I think a guy would be pretty damn lucky to be loved by you. 😊
Originally posted by Enslaved
The last guy who told me... 'i love you' broke my heart.. i dont velive in love anymore...It just uses you then spits you out when its done

Damn. Thats has to suck. I'm sorry to hear that. As Allyn pointed out to me shit happens. You cant let the past have power over your future. I think everyone should listen to "See The Sun" by Dido.

Re: The Value of 'I Love You'

Originally posted by ShapedByWords
I dont use the words 'I Love You' very often or lightly. Only 2 people have ever really been loved by me... My brother and my ex. I was wondering how much value you guys put in these words.

im not a guy....but i value the word "i love you". You cant just use them, you have t have feeling behind them and if you use them other wise they loose thier meaning.

Originally posted by ShapedByWords
Damn. Thats has to suck. I'm sorry to hear that. As Allyn pointed out to me shit happens. You cant let the past have power over your future. I think everyone should listen to "See The Sun" by Dido.

Yes Allyn is a sweetie...But love gave up on my ages ago..so why hold my breathe..Im not bitter just realistic...and my future will be the same as my present..and you know why..because im not the same girl i was yrs ago..i dont give my heart to just anyone...

....and to answer your question when i say i love it....i mean it!

Originally posted by ShapedByWords
I dont use the words 'I Love You' very often or lightly. Only 2 people have ever really been loved by me... My brother and my ex. I was wondering how much value you guys put in these words.

I have never used these words in my whole entire life because I have never been loved. Ok maybe my parents say it but its been a long time ago since they have said that. Since I havent found my true love yet that is why I feel like this. Maybe things will change in the near future.

Originally posted by ShapedByWords
It is always best to know for sure. ✅ Just so you know I think a guy would be pretty damn lucky to be loved by you. 😊

I think everyone should listen to "See The Sun" by Dido.

Yup...though love requires so much trust in the other person it's hard....

Thank you 🙂 ...personally I think it would be the other way around 😖 ..but thannks 😄

Indeed...it's a beautiful song...very hopeful ✅

Originally posted by Pandabear
im not a guy....but i value the word "i love you". You cant just use them, you have t have feeling behind them and if you use them other wise they loose thier meaning.

The feelings def have to be there.
Originally posted by Enslaved
Yes Allyn is a sweetie...But love gave up on my ages ago..so why hold my breathe..Im not bitter just realistic...and my future will be the same as my present..and you know why..because im not the same girl i was yrs ago..i dont give my heart to just anyone...

....and to answer your question when i say i love it....i mean it!


Thats the way it should. We all need to only say it if we truly mean it. ✅
Originally posted by Darth Nauj
I have never used these words in my whole entire life because I have never been loved. Ok maybe my parents say it but its been a long time ago since they have said that. Since I havent found my true love yet that is why I feel like this. Maybe things will change in the near future.

I dont think I ever told my mum I loved her. I think she cared for me, but I was a little shit that made it very hard to be loved.

There IS someone out there for everyone. ✅

Originally posted by ShapedByWords
The feelings def have to be there.

Thats the way it should. We all need to only say it if we truly mean it. ✅

I dont think I ever told my mum I loved her. I think she cared for me, but I was a little shit that made it very hard to be loved.

There IS someone out there for everyone. ✅

I never told my mom i loved her...i used to..but when i needed her the most she turned her back on me..The only person who is worthy of all my love is my son..apart from tht meh

Originally posted by Fianna
Yup...though love requires so much trust in the other person it's hard....

Thank you 🙂 ...personally I think it would be the other way around 😖 ..but thannks 😄

Indeed...it's a beautiful song...very hopeful ✅


Trust is a very big thing!!
Originally posted by Enslaved
I never told my mom i loved her...i used to..but when i needed her the most she turned her back on me..The only person who is worthy of all my love is my son..apart from tht meh

"Mother is the name for God on the lips and hearts of all children" (I really quote movies too much 😖) Protect and love your son.

I only use it when I'm talking to Storm I say it a lot tho, I don't believe that takes away the meaning

Those three words can be both the dealies and the most life inspiring words in the world.

Originally posted by Fire
I only use it when I'm talking to Storm I say it a lot tho, I don't believe that takes away the meaning

As long as you LOVE her, I think its okay to tell her often.
Originally posted by Kosta
Those three words can be both the dealies and the most life inspiring words in the world.

Never have truer words been spoken.

no I say it to her all the time because I don't love her

Originally posted by Fire
no I say it to her all the time because I don't love her

I wasnt implying that you didnt. Sorry if I came across that way.

np

😊