Need help with girls!
Okay, I have a dilemma right now. There are two girls at my school that I need help with. One has a crush on me and wants to be my girlfriend, but I only like her as a friend and I don't want to hurt her feelings. The other I've had a crush on for two years, I've known her for seven years, and I'm too nervous to tell her how I feel. I NEED HELP!!
okay first off, you need to let girl #1 know you only care for her as a friend. But do it nicely. maybe say something like " I know you like me, and I think thats really sweet. I dont want to hurt your feelings But I only care for as a friend. I like hanging out with you and hope we can remain friends, but I only seeing us being friends at the time" to the other girl I know this will sound silly, but maybe write her a note. Notes can be easier because you write out how you feel, then give the letter to them maybe passing in the hall. That way she will read in class and you wont be there (if you have diff classes) so it wont be as awkawrd.she will know how you feel and she will probably write you back telling you her response. Or you could just work up the courage and tell her face to face or on the phone.
Originally posted by DarkC
Seven years? That'd be awkward, KD. It's better to tell her sooner than later. Might as well find out. Best of luck to you, mate. :ip:
Originally posted by Raven Guardia
okay first off, you need to let girl #1 know you only care for her as a friend. But do it nicely. maybe say something like " I know you like me, and I think thats really sweet. I dont want to hurt your feelings But I only care for as a friend. I like hanging out with you and hope we can remain friends, but I only seeing us being friends at the time" to the other girl I know this will sound silly, but maybe write her a note. Notes can be easier because you write out how you feel, then give the letter to them maybe passing in the hall. That way she will read in class and you wont be there (if you have diff classes) so it wont be as awkawrd.she will know how you feel and she will probably write you back telling you her response. Or you could just work up the courage and tell her face to face or on the phone.
The first girl, like RG said, needs to be told asap. The longer she thinks she might have a chance with you, the more attached she'll get making it more difficult to explain things to her at a later date. Writing a letter to girl no. 2 is also a good idea. I was written a letter from a guy and it was much better because i had chance to think of exactly what to say back and there arent any awkward red faces or silences. Hop it goes well. RG, you should be an agony uncle. 10/10 for advice
Ok, here's what you gotta do. Tell the first one you love her and let her be your girlfriend even if you don't like her. It will get the attention of the girl you have a crush on and she'll notice you for that. She'll then want you because she's a jealous b i t c h! Take advantage of girl number 1 as much as possible and then, when the time is right, dump her and go out with the other chick. Manage the break-up so she feels guilty of herself and blames herself that the relationship broke. Just be friends again and give her a hope that the relationship you had with her might come back. In case you break up with chick number 2, go after your friend again and do the same pattern again, this time to another girl, let's call her chick number 3. After this, however, you will definitively loose chick number 1, thought.
Originally posted by dave123
Sounds like a solution only nude mud wrestling can solve 😬If they don't agree, they don't want you enough ❌
Originally posted by Mandos
Ok, here's what you gotta do. Tell the first one you love her and let her be your girlfriend even if you don't like her. It will get the attention of the girl you have a crush on and she'll notice you for that. She'll then want you because she's a jealous b i t c h! Take advantage of girl number 1 as much as possible and then, when the time is right, dump her and go out with the other chick. Manage the break-up so she feels guilty of herself and blames herself that the relationship broke. Just be friends again and give her a hope that the relationship you had with her might come back. In case you break up with chick number 2, go after your friend again and do the same pattern again, this time to another girl, let's call her chick number 3. After this, however, you will definitively loose chick number 1, thought.
I'm just kidding man, just kidding 😎
For a serious response, ask yourself what you love in a girl. The hot one you wish to be with: do you really know her? as much as your friend? Don,t be afraid because it can break a relationship. If it's the right person, go for it and you will never feel bad but only happy. If you're definitively not attracted to your friend, go ask the other girl out. If she says no, you'll get the point. Don't waiste your time in something you'll never gonna get.
Originally posted by Mandos
I'm just kidding man, just kidding 😎For a serious response, ask yourself what you love in a girl. The hot one you wish to be with: do you really know her? as much as your friend? Don,t be afraid because it can break a relationship. If it's the right person, go for it and you will never feel bad but only happy. If you're definitively not attracted to your friend, go ask the other girl out. If she says no, you'll get the point. Don't waiste your time in something you'll never gonna get.
Originally posted by Mandos
Ok, here's what you gotta do. Tell the first one you love her and let her be your girlfriend even if you don't like her. It will get the attention of the girl you have a crush on and she'll notice you for that. She'll then want you because she's a jealous b i t c h! Take advantage of girl number 1 as much as possible and then, when the time is right, dump her and go out with the other chick. Manage the break-up so she feels guilty of herself and blames herself that the relationship broke. Just be friends again and give her a hope that the relationship you had with her might come back. In case you break up with chick number 2, go after your friend again and do the same pattern again, this time to another girl, let's call her chick number 3. After this, however, you will definitively loose chick number 1, thought.
YOU CANT DO THAT that is just so tight on girl number 1 she'd just be getting used. 🙁 dont listen to him!try the mud wrestling though that sounds more fun and less mean