Need help with girls!

Originally posted by KingDubya
Okay, I have a dilemma right now. There are two girls at my school that I need help with. One has a crush on me and wants to be my girlfriend, but I only like her as a friend and I don't want to hurt her feelings. The other I've had a crush on for two years, I've known her for seven years, and I'm too nervous to tell her how I feel. I NEED HELP!!

Sure, you'll say this is shallow and incredibly heartless, but it's what i did in a similar situation 🙁 Now i'm not saying it was a good choice, or a bad choice....it was MY choice.
I was in a situation similar to your own, except i only knew friend #2 for about 1 year or so. Basically, i just went out to more parties that she was at as well, spoke to her more often, etc., tried it all. She wasn't really interested, so i chose not to make myself look even more like a fool.
Friend #1, happened to be attractive. So.......yep, even though i had no feelings for her, i went for it. We had some fun together, it was a nice relationship while it lasted, but i ended it after a while. Yeah, you might say i treated her like a consolation prize....but she was a prize alright.

Not to mention we're still friends. Also....i happened to be lucky. I'm pretty sure the relationship with friend #1 was better than one would've been with #2.

So....not telling you what to do....just what i did in a similar situation 😉

~wickerman~

Originally posted by KingDubya
1. Yes, I know the girl I have a crush on. I've known her for seven years and she hasn't changed too much.
2. I wouldn't necessarily say that she's hot. It's just that when I see her, I constantly think that she's beautiful and that I wanna be with her.

Just an idea, if you end up with the girl you say is beautiful, mentin that you think shes beautiful, not just hot, because she'll know you really like her and think shes beautiful inside too. Thats a dead nice thing to say to a girl

See what Wicker just wrote?

Wicker's a fool, so do the opposite! 😛

Originally posted by Treehuggerjanie
YOU CANT DO THAT that is just so tight on girl number 1 she'd just be getting used. 🙁 dont listen to him!try the mud wrestling though that sounds more fun and less mean

If there's something wrong, talk to me directly about it and in private!!!! 😕

Originally posted by Treehuggerjanie
Just an idea, if you end up with the girl you say is beautiful, mentin that you think shes beautiful, not just hot, because she'll know you really like her and think shes beautiful inside too. Thats a dead nice thing to say to a girl

This reminded me of being called an @sshole for something pretty silly. My friends introduced me to a girl.....an overweight girl......that wasn't very attractive either 🙁 . For some strange reason, they kept insisting that i all of the sudden tell her i think she's beautiful. I refused, seeing as how i don't want to hurt people's feelings, but i also don't want to lie to them, and by telling her that would've given her the entirely wrong idea, and in the end hurt her feelings 🙁
I ended up saying something like "You're very beautiful......on the.....inside....." 😖hifty:

~wickerman~

Originally posted by dave123
See what Wicker just wrote?

Wicker's a fool, so do the opposite! 😛

You are being SOOOOOOO un-diva-ish Spence.....really...... mhm

~wickerman~

I'm sure the hand offers a far better conversation than you ever could schmoll

The sex is probably a lot better, too! 😱 Take that flirt

Why settle for one?

Why not have both?

as long as he does actually think shes beautiful inside too its nice to let her know. Makes you feel special 😊

Originally posted by Linkalicious
Why settle for one?

Why not have both?

typical 🙄

Originally posted by dave123
I'm sure the hand offers a far better conversation than you ever could schmoll

The sex is probably a lot better, too! 😱 Take that flirt

Oh just stop the denial Spence.....we all know the Julia Roberts Pretty Woman wanna-be thing isn't THE THING anymore......schmoll

Admit to your undying love for me that leads to destructive god-like fits of rage, and be over with it mhm

~wickerman~

Originally posted by Wickerman
Oh just stop the denial Spence.....we all know the Julia Roberts Pretty Woman wanna-be thing isn't THE THING anymore......schmoll

Admit to your undying love for me that leads to destructive god-like fits of rage, and be over with it mhm

~wickerman~

you two are waaay funny 😂

Originally posted by Wickerman
Oh just stop the denial Spence.....we all know the Julia Roberts Pretty Woman wanna-be thing isn't THE THING anymore......schmoll

Admit to your undying love for me that leads to destructive god-like fits of rage, and be over with it mhm

~wickerman~

Originally posted by dave123
flirt Do I get your hand with you, though? naughty

That's like saying "Does Mist eat 30 sammiches per day?"

Understatement babeh flirt1

~wickerman~

schmoll you're not using me to make someone else jealous, are you?

Originally posted by dave123
schmoll you're not using me to make someone else jealous, are you?

I'll have sex with you. So does it matter? eyes

~wickerman~

*is amazed at how off-topic his thread became*

get some balls...ask her out...if you dont then you'll regret it

Originally posted by Wickerman
I'll have sex with you. So does it matter? eyes

~wickerman~

by girl #1 you mean,...whats her name...melissa? elisa? what the hell was her name again? she like just sat there today and did nothing since you werent at school today. i had hoped you realized she had a crush on you, shes just too obvious...

but who do you have a crush on? why didnt you ask me about this?