i need advice.

can annyone offer to give me some advice? 🙁

Advice about...?

well,my best friend broke up with this guy a while ago and now she hates his living guts.well,now i'm going out withhim.all she thinks is that we are friends,and she won't talk to me at all,but i really like the guy,what am i supposed 2 do?!

It is almost always a problematic situation. If you are really interested, you should certainly feel free to discuss it with your friend.

well i don't want to tell her,because she might never talk to me again.

that seems like the only solution.

would you wrather let it bother you and live with it?

or

would you like to confront her and end it?

well...what should i say to her?

Your friendship is worth too much to jeopardize over a boyfriend but you shouldn' t miss an opportunity because you are too afraid to explore your friend' s feelings.

i don't get it.

You're eventually going to Break up with him so...I'd take a friendship over a meaningless relationship

The only adivce I can give you is to sit your best friend down and to talk it over with her.

Originally posted by terra grl 123
well,my best friend broke up with this guy a while ago and now she hates his living guts.well,now i'm going out withhim.all she thinks is that we are friends,and she won't talk to me at all,but i really like the guy,what am i supposed 2 do?!

And if both agreed, well then you're just going to have to figure out for yourself what means more to you. Companionship or friendship. Neither one is an unpainful choice, and I cannot tell you which one would be better because differant people hold differant fates..

Originally posted by terra grl 123
well i don't want to tell her,because she might never talk to me again.

If she was a true friend, she'd be ok with it. 😉

You gotta mention something about this to your friend...She'll probably find out anyway...and it would be much worse.....Anyway..you might be surprised at your friends reaction about it...Don't view things worse than they can be......Conversations with best friends are worth it.

Well TerraGirl123, I am sure that if she is your true friend, she will get over it.

Give her some time, she should get better with time. Or find a boyfriend for her.

Originally posted by SlipknoT
You're eventually going to Break up with him so...I'd take a friendship over a meaningless relationship

Why meaningless? Blind assumption. Love sometimes happens.

dont eat yellow snow...

Originally posted by jaden101
dont eat yellow snow...

Indispensable advice.

Originally posted by Lord Melkor
Why meaningless? Blind assumption. Love sometimes happens.

i told my friend last night,and i told her that i wanted to talk about it,but she said "try me",then she hung up. 🙁

Originally posted by terra grl 123
well,my best friend broke up with this guy a while ago and now she hates his living guts.well,now i'm going out withhim.all she thinks is that we are friends,and she won't talk to me at all,but i really like the guy,what am i supposed 2 do?!

What are you supposed to do? First, you should realize that you don't really care about your friend, otherwise you would not have allowed this situation to happen. Secondly, you need to figure out which of them means more to you. Because if it's her, you'll end it and apologize. If it's him, then you need to get over her not talking to you.