i need advice.

well...ok,i guess,i really like him,and she's my best friend.

Originally posted by terra grl 123
well...ok,i guess,i really like him,and she's my best friend.

Whats your point? That you want you cake and to eat it too? You can't.

i'll just leave my friend alone 4 a coupple of days,and then try to talk to her about it again.

Your friend is not a very good friend.

Tell her to get over her melodramatic piss-and-moan, wallow-in-my-own-self-pity bitchfest. She's being a selfish prick and treating YOU like shit because she's angry and hurt. If you are really afraid about confronting her, I would wait her out--chances are that she'll get over herself and want to be friends again.

If not, you're better off without her.

thanks FeceMan.

Originally posted by FeceMan
Your friend is not a very good friend.

Tell her to get over her melodramatic piss-and-moan, wallow-in-my-own-self-pity bitchfest. She's being a selfish prick and treating YOU like shit because she's angry and hurt. If you are really afraid about confronting her, I would wait her out--chances are that she'll get over herself and want to be friends again.

If not, you're better off without her.

Oh, come on man. If you were dating a girl and then your friend started dating her, you're saying you wouldn't be pissed off in the least...despite the reasons for the break-up?

Well the friend and the boyfriend broke up right?...so, isn't he open for the new girl friend...But again, the old girl friends would want an alliance on what a jerk the old boyfriend is...But instead of an alliance...She goes with him...That is why the friend is hurt...

I would view it more as one of those unspoken rules for friendship.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Well the friend and the boyfriend broke up right?...so, isn't he open for the new girl friend...But again, the old girl friends would want an alliance on what a jerk the old boyfriend is...But instead of an alliance...She goes with him...That is why the friend is hurt...

i don't get it.

Originally posted by FeceMan
Your friend is not a very good friend.

Tell her to get over her melodramatic piss-and-moan, wallow-in-my-own-self-pity bitchfest. She's being a selfish prick and treating YOU like shit because she's angry and hurt. If you are really afraid about confronting her, I would wait her out--chances are that she'll get over herself and want to be friends again.

If not, you're better off without her.

well,i'd never say that to my friend.

Originally posted by terra grl 123
well,i'd never say that to my friend.

Why wouldn't you?

decause she'd get pissed at me.

Originally posted by terra grl 123
decause she'd get pissed at me.

So, you won't tell her to get over it out of fear of her getting angry, but you will date her ex? That makes no sense. I'll refer you to my first post.

Originally posted by terra grl 123
thanks FeceMan.

"thanks" and "Feceman" are two words I had never thought I'd see together...

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
So, you won't tell her to get over it out of fear of her getting angry, but you will date her ex? That makes no sense. I'll refer you to my first post.

well,she hates her ex.!!!he likes me and i like him,and she just needs do get over it,and be my friend,it's not like she'll ever see or talk to him,i just don't understand her.

Originally posted by EsteemedLeader
"thanks" and "Feceman" are two words I had never thought I'd see together...

why?

i suggest that u go out with him nonetheless, ur friend will get over it, maybe, just tell her, or would u rather haver her find out from someone else

already told her last night,and she hung up on me.

Originally posted by terra grl 123
why?

Not that it's this guy (FeceMan), I just didn't expect to see someone who is the self proclaimed lord of feces to be taken seriously...

is she ur best friend, cause if she is than most likely shell get over it, but keep tryin to talk with her, see if u can still be friends