I need help

My bf and i have been going out for the last 2 years and weve got rly close and we have a good time with the Kissing and The cuddling and the touchy-feely 😮

But now i think he wants more and i'm not ready for that. But if i refuse him he might leave me and i don't want that...I love him so much!

What should i do

well maybe you should just tell him, be honest. thats what i would do

If he loves you, he'll understand if you're not ready.

Bt he'll want someone who can give him what he wants and he sez what he wants is for me to be his first! Whatdoido whatdoido!Argh!

Hmm, he sounds like a shallow guy to me.

Maybe so...But hes MY shallow guy and i don't wana loose him!

If he makes a move on you, just tell him gently you're not ready yet, but you still love him.

And if that doesn't work....you'd probably be better off without him.

That mite work. Awww thank u Darlin' winkiss

You're welcome. I'll pray for ya.

Awww nice 2 know theres sum1 here who cares about me!Wuv u! winkiss

😮

*nervous laughter*

Even over the frickin internet my knees go wobbly. Goddammit.

hehe! i need sum1 like u who really cares about my feelings... I'll be on the next flight out to Canada Hun xxxx Lol!

😮 Aw. But seriously, everyone matures with time. 😛 Don't worry.

See ya.

Bibi XXXX

Yeah what DarkC said.....been there, heard that...

Originally posted by Darth Bloodlust
My bf and i have been going out for the last 2 years and weve got rly close and we have a good time with the Kissing and The cuddling and the touchy-feely 😮

But now i think he wants more and i'm not ready for that. But if i refuse him he might leave me and i don't want that...I love him so much!

What should i do

I hesitate to say stupid, as that would imply you have a sub-par staff in your mental faculty (that's a joke).

Perhaps 'lacking common sense' works better.

Yes, I like that. You people are really, really lacking common sense. Not the cleanest sentence ever written, but it does the job.

If your boyfriend will leave you because you will not do something with which you are not comfortable, he's an ass who needs to get over himself. Everyone deserves better than that. Leave him--that is, if he threatens to dump you or tries to force you to do something that makes you uncomfortable--or you will regret it in the long run.

Originally posted by FeceMan
You people are really, really...

I hesitate to say stupid, as that would imply you have a sub-par staff in your mental faculty (that's a joke).

Perhaps 'lacking common sense' works better.

Yes, I like that. You people are really, really lacking common sense. Not the cleanest sentence ever written, but it does the job.

If your boyfriend will leave you because you will not do something with which you are not comfortable, he's an ass who needs to get over himself. Everyone deserves better than that. Leave him--that is, if he threatens to dump you or tries to force you to do something that makes you uncomfortable--or you will regret it in the long run.

Well said. These threads do get rather banal and tiresome.

"NO SOUP FOR YOU"...Soup Nazi...Seinfield......

ie...no more advise.

U guys are mean! [smile]cry[/smile]

Don't cry....cause you got all the best advise....