I know you're very emotional and think this is somehow a large conflict. But it's not. Just tell him you aren't ready to go that far yet. He'll understand. What idiot would invest two years of his life into you or anyone if they were going to throw it all away just because you wouldn't sex them up? That's not thinking realisticaly.
And I know that sounds cold, but that's how knowledge is best served. Trust me, he's not going to dump you, he's not going to resent you, he's going to understand and when you are ready, you're going to grab that red hot meaning of life, and make some ironmen..
Originally posted by FeceMan
You people are really, really...I hesitate to say stupid, as that would imply you have a sub-par staff in your mental faculty (that's a joke).
Perhaps 'lacking common sense' works better.
Yes, I like that. You people are really, really lacking common sense. Not the cleanest sentence ever written, but it does the job.
If your boyfriend will leave you because you will not do something with which you are not comfortable, he's an ass who needs to get over himself. Everyone deserves better than that. Leave him--that is, if he threatens to dump you or tries to force you to do something that makes you uncomfortable--or you will regret it in the long run.
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Re: I need help
Originally posted by Darth Bloodlust
My bf and i have been going out for the last 2 years and weve got rly close and we have a good time with the Kissing and The cuddling and the touchy-feely 😮But now i think he wants more and i'm not ready for that. But if i refuse him he might leave me and i don't want that...I love him so much!
What should i do
Originally posted by Kosta
Fece Man's post is the most credible in terms of advice. Sorry to burst your bubble. If he loves you, he'll wait. Just don't send him mixed messages, then he will be well within his right to be angry. 😛
You bastard!😠 I just noticed your sig😠
Ill get you for this😠
Crap, not enough room left.....disgust