Wife Pours Boiling Oil All Over Her Husband.

Originally posted by Lana
I'm aware, I just got a 2nd degree burn on my hand the other day making tea at work.

Gotta say it's not nearly as bad as the time I burned myself on the popcorn maker when I still worked at the movie theater....because that was hot oil 😬

It's sad. I've had some experience with that in my own family, unfortunately (not going into details though).

Meh......i've had hot boiling water on me plenty of times.....for some reason i never got scars though.....i suppose i have either a thick skin or there was a protective layer of dirt and other nasty stuff 😛

~wickerman~

Originally posted by Jedi Priestess

Nice tie in Irene thumbsup

Thank you, thank you meditate

Originally posted by BackFire
Of course she has a choice. She can put her fears aside and leave if she's in physical danger, or choose to stay because she's scared, her being afraid and thus making her stupid doesn't negate the fact that she does have a choice in the matter.

OK scenario here for ya. Wife is abused by husband. They have 2 children. Husband has repeatedly told wife if she tells anyone or leaves he not only willl find her and kill her but he will kill the children as well.

You cant just say oh well she still has the choice to leave. It's not that cut and dried babe.

Originally posted by Wickerman
Meh......i've had hot boiling water on me plenty of times.....for some reason i never got scars though.....i suppose i have either a thick skin or there was a protective layer of dirt and other nasty stuff 😛

~wickerman~

Well, I got a scar from the popcorn-maker burn...I don't think I'll get a scar from the hot water burn though, it's pretty much faded already. Still hurts, though. I swear I was so glad that it went numb after a while because it hurt so freaking bad.

Originally posted by silver_tears
I didnt know him so it's not such a big deal for me personally, his mother's wacko to this day though. And it was like 7 years before I was born.

But speaking of that, I have a thing for scars myself 😮

Well you know, i DO have a scar on my right eyebrow like someone cut the eyebrow ...... hair won't grow on it naughty

*smacks self*

GDF NOT OTF DAMMIT!!!!!!!

😮

~wickerman~

Originally posted by Jedi Priestess
OK scenario here for ya. Wife is abused by husband. They have 2 children. Husband has repeatedly told wife if she tells anyone or leaves he not only willl find her and kill her but he will kill the children as well.

You cant just say oh well she still has the choice to leave. It's not that cut and dried babe.

1. take kids with her

2. shoot or stab the bastard.....not burn 75% of his body 😬

~wickerman~

Originally posted by Wickerman
Well you know, i DO have a scar on my right eyebrow like someone cut the eyebrow ...... hair won't grow on it naughty
*smacks self*
GDF NOT OTF DAMMIT!!!!!!!
😮
~wickerman~

I have one on my left eyebrow 😐
Damn that's freaky, but I had a shard of something slice it there and it has pretty much faded but won't grow disgust

Originally posted by Lana
Well, I got a scar from the popcorn-maker burn...I don't think I'll get a scar from the hot water burn though, it's pretty much faded already. Still hurts, though. I swear I was so glad that it went numb after a while because it hurt so freaking bad.

Sounds nasty. Meh.....you have to be careful with it i spose. I've only handled hot oil in my own personal cooking experiments, so i never got hot oil burns or anything.

~wickerman~

Oh, but it is. She can take the kids and run off while he's away and tell the cops. It may not be a good choice, but it's a choice none the less. One that could have easily been avoided by not getting involved with a psycho in the first place.

Originally posted by Wickerman
1. take kids with her

2. shoot or stab the bastard.....not burn 75% of his body 😬

~wickerman~

although that may be more acceptable to you and i, in the eyes of the law its just as bad...so pointless suggestion

Originally posted by Wickerman
1. take kids with her

2. shoot or stab the bastard.....not burn 75% of his body 😬

~wickerman~

Oh that makes it right, stab him isntead of burn him? You guys are weird.

Originally posted by BackFire
Oh, but it is. She can take the kids and run off while he's away and tell the cops. It may not be a good choice, but it's a choice none the less. One that could have easily been avoided by not getting involved with a psycho in the first place.

not all psychos have a big neon sign over their heads that say "psycho"
in fact many seem almost impossibly nice at first. the whole "should have seen it coming" arguement is quite pointless

Originally posted by BackFire
Oh, but it is. She can take the kids and run off while he's away and tell the cops. It may not be a good choice, but it's a choice none the less. One that could have easily been avoided by not getting involved with a psycho in the first place.

And then he makes bail and kills them all.

These days a restraining order isnt worth the paper its writen on and there have been many, MANY documented cases where this very thing has happened.

And while I tend to agree with the last statement, unfortunately not everyone is as they appear in the beginning, or we'd all be married to our first dates. 😂

Originally posted by Wickerman
Sounds nasty. Meh.....you have to be careful with it i spose. I've only handled hot oil in my own personal cooking experiments, so i never got hot oil burns or anything.

~wickerman~

I won't even cook with the stuff if I can avoid it....

Originally posted by BackFire
Oh, but it is. She can take the kids and run off while he's away and tell the cops. It may not be a good choice, but it's a choice none the less. One that could have easily been avoided by not getting involved with a psycho in the first place.

You say tell the cops....but as Irene and I have pointed out (and I have done research into this), many times the cops won't do anything. Not until the woman retaliates will they care.

Not to mention the case that he may not even seem like a psycho at first -- a lot of times in cases like that everything seems fine at first, but the husband/boyfriend will over time start to get more and more controlling until finally he's outright abusive.

Originally posted by silver_tears
One of my friends has a cousin who was killed by her ex-husband after she had left him. She got a restraining order, moved, changed everything about her life, he found her, and stabbed her like 20 times or something. She never made it. He on the other hand was only given I think something like 8 years or that.

For example...........

And worst of all is that she had even told the cops he was after her and in town, they did nothing for her.

Originally posted by silver_tears
I have one on my left eyebrow 😐
Damn that's freaky, but I had a shard of something slice it there and it has pretty much faded but won't grow disgust

I fell down and hit the ground smack with my face 🙁

Got stiches and stuff, hair won't grow......lemme see if i can get a pic.....

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v442/preacherofnothing/my%20pics/ochi.jpg

You can't really see it in a dark environment or a bad quality pic like this:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v442/preacherofnothing/my%20pics/Vladimir1.jpg

~wickerman~

Originally posted by Lana
I won't even cook with the stuff if I can avoid it....

You say tell the cops....but as Irene and I have pointed out (and I have done research into this), many times the cops won't do anything. Not until the woman retaliates will they care.

That doesn't make it okay to take the law into your own hands and dump scoulding oil on the man or cut his dick off or kill him or anything. Because there are some shitty cops around doesn't excuse this type of act.

PVS - That maybe so, but I'd think that a reasonable person could see something is significantly wrong with someone mentally before having several children with them. And again, if it that wasn't the case, she still has the choice to leave.

Damn Irene, thats sad weep

Currently, I believe the fellow is in the hospital and in critical condition.

And a considerable amount of agony.

By the way, '*****' was more suiting than 'wife'.

Originally posted by silver_tears
For example...........

And worst of all is that she had even told the cops he was after her and in town, they did nothing for her.

Damn. That's horrible.

See? Stuff like THAT is why women are afraid to leave an abusive relationship.