Well, I have kids older that a lot of you, my oldest daughter is 24. I've been married twice and current have a GF who is in her late 20s and a lot younger than me. Love is a wonderful thing, but it takes work and can be really painful when it ends. Sex, when it is new, is very intense and above almost anything in life. Sex, even for fun with a fleeting partner can be incredible. Put the two together, and this is the best of all worlds. Unfortunately, the intensity never lasts. Most people would answer love but I know a number of people who are in their 40s and 50s who are still looking for true love, and wish they had had the great sex when they had the chance. many look back on short encounters with fond memories. I'm in my 40s, and I just can't answer this. oh, btw, I'm male.
Originally posted by xmarksthespot
I read a study of teenagers which found that quite a few resisted the conventional gender stereotype that teenage boys are far more interested in sex than teenage girls, (boys want sex) and that teenage girls want commitment while teenage boys don't (girls want love).So what gender and (if you want) what age are you? Did you conform to the above gender stereotypes when you were a teenager and do you today? And if you [b]had
to choose between either sex and love, which would you choose? [/B]
When i was in my mid teens all i lived for was the weekend and getting laid...
im 22 now... and i know how much more rewarding love can be... i was the stereotype, not anymore...
Originally posted by xmarksthespot
The majority of the girls have said sex, while the majority of the guys have said love. Interesting.
I'm willing to bet that if half the girls who claim they just want sex, found out that a guy they slept with was sleeping with another girl casually, they'd be out saying guys suck.
-AC
Generalisations and stereotypes are brought about because of uneducated people's prejudice. Everyone goes through puberty and everyone wants sex, and EVERYONE, even if they don't realise it, or deny it, wants to be loved. As for the question, I'd want both, not going to chose one over the other. Love is great, and sex is an instrument of expressing your love. One without the other is like a ship without a hull, its not going to stay afloat.
Originally posted by KostaI love this post ✅ you read my mind like a book Kosta 😄
Generalisations and stereotypes are brought about because of uneducated people's prejudice. Everyone goes through puberty and everyone wants sex, and EVERYONE, even if they don't realise it, or deny it, wants to be loved. As for the question, I'd want both, not going to chose one over the other. Love is great, and sex is an instrument of expressing your love. One without the other is like a ship without a hull, its not going to stay afloat.