Girls Want Sex, Boys Want Love?

i am 18 male i have been looking for love since i was 13 and i found it a year ago but i am kinda weird as it is

hey love n sex ... i need both!

thats ass backwards i was always taught it was the other way around

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
I read a study of teenagers which found that quite a few resisted the conventional gender stereotype that teenage boys are far more interested in sex than teenage girls, (boys want sex) and that teenage girls want commitment while teenage boys don't (girls want love).

So what gender and (if you want) what age are you? Did you conform to the above gender stereotypes when you were a teenager and do you today? And if you [b]had to choose between either sex and love, which would you choose? [/B]

I would say that it is boys who are looking for that and girls want just to be love but is presure.I am not talking about al the time through.I am talking about most of the time.jm

That "pressure" wouldn't have anything to do with you being grounded, would it?

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
I read a study of teenagers which found that quite a few resisted the conventional gender stereotype that teenage boys are far more interested in sex than teenage girls, (boys want sex) and that teenage girls want commitment while teenage boys don't (girls want love).

So what gender and (if you want) what age are you? Did you conform to the above gender stereotypes when you were a teenager and do you today? And if you [b]had to choose between either sex and love, which would you choose? [/B]

once there was conquest the sparks sputtered out and I'd move on..but now that I'm older I like being in love..but like kosta said its hard not to have one and not the other. 😄

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
I'm willing to bet that if half the girls who claim they just want sex, found out that a guy they slept with was sleeping with another girl casually, they'd be out saying guys suck.

-AC

Yeah.

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
I read a study of teenagers which found that quite a few resisted the conventional gender stereotype that teenage boys are far more interested in sex than teenage girls, (boys want sex) and that teenage girls want commitment while teenage boys don't (girls want love).

So what gender and (if you want) what age are you? Did you conform to the above gender stereotypes when you were a teenager and do you today? And if you [b]had to choose between either sex and love, which would you choose? [/B]

I'm a girl, 18, and my former boyfriend, now fiance, has finally decided to grow up out of his 'i just want sex' phase. thank god for small favors. But I'm one of the few, the proud, the engaged.

To all the girlfriends out there, I am entirely attributing to my engagement to luck of the draw....oh yeah and the patience of a saint. Most guys never grow out of it.
But if yours doesnt, it's got nothing to do with you, men are just hard wired to mate successfully and as often as possible, because they havent evolved yet.

Is it Aggrivating? Incredibly.
Is there anything we can do about it? Not a damn thing.
🙄

17/m, love. But wouldn't mind the latter 😛

Originally posted by Fishy
I'm a guy. And actually at this time I would rather want love then sex...

Originally posted by Sir Mist
Im a guy, and I'd probably start with finding a girl first..

I wholeheartedly agree

Originally posted by Curl_Up&Dye
I'm a girl, 18, and my former boyfriend, now fiance, has finally decided to grow up out of his 'i just want sex' phase. thank god for small favors. But I'm one of the few, the proud, the engaged.

To all the girlfriends out there, I am entirely attributing to my engagement to luck of the draw....oh yeah and the patience of a saint. Most guys never grow out of it.
But if yours doesnt, it's got nothing to do with you, men are just hard wired to mate successfully and as often as possible, because they havent evolved yet.

Is it Aggrivating? Incredibly.
Is there anything we can do about it? Not a damn thing.
🙄

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
I read a study of teenagers which found that quite a few resisted the conventional gender stereotype that teenage boys are far more interested in sex than teenage girls, (boys want sex) and that teenage girls want commitment while teenage boys don't (girls want love).

So what gender and (if you want) what age are you? Did you conform to the above gender stereotypes when you were a teenager and do you today? And if you [b]had to choose between either sex and love, which would you choose? [/B]

I'm a girl, and I think that both are important. But love is of primary importance of course.

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
I read a study of teenagers which found that quite a few resisted the conventional gender stereotype that teenage boys are far more interested in sex than teenage girls, (boys want sex) and that teenage girls want commitment while teenage boys don't (girls want love).

So what gender and (if you want) what age are you? Did you conform to the above gender stereotypes when you were a teenager and do you today? And if you [b]had to choose between either sex and love, which would you choose? [/B]

I perfer to be loved. Ive never been loved before, Oh well....

there there...

My ex who has actually become like my best friend (is that weird?) said that of all her 10 or so boyfriends, I was the only one she never cheated on. It kind of made me feel a bit better about her leaving me. Oh Chelsea, don't you realise what I'd give up to have you...

...Sorry. Got a bit carried away there...

18, male, when i was in highschool i only really cared about sex...but ever since coming to college i dunno, i wanna find someone to love.......weird huh?