love

love is complacated

Originally posted by debbiejo
^ I like that. But what about people who fall out of love?

16chic said it right. Falling out of love in actuality means that you were never in love with whatever or whomever you thought you were in love with in the 1st place.

You fall in love but never fall out of it. It's impossible to fall out of love with true love because it grows too deep to fall out of. And once you're in, you're there forever. Forever in love. That's where the refrain "In to deep" with a person, comes in.

And that's below the fact that Love is immortal. It has an inception, but no end.

^ Well that sounds good, but how would you explain people who get a divorce, they loved each other at one time. And the percentage of divorces is around like 50% I think.

Originally posted by debbiejo
^ Well that sounds good, but how would you explain people who get a divorce, they loved each other at one time. And the percentage of divorces is around like 50% I think.

Then it wasn't true love but really good friends that had a good sexual connection and a deep like for each other or it was just convenient or a million other things. Otherwise they wouldn't have gotten a divorce. Sometimes there were differences that made staying together impossible but that shouldn't matter, know why? Cause Love conquers all. Even impossibilities.

There's always a way with Love. Without it marriages cannot survive no matter the length or what happened at one time.

Hmmmmm this sounds kinda true.

Now... I have a question...

I don't know if this has been discussed before but...

Anyway... are there really "SOUL MATES" in love?

Depends. Do you believe in "souls?" Do you believe in "fate?" If so, then "soulmates" makes sense. If not, then it can be seen as romanticized and idealistic, love as seen by dreamers.

For me, all I will say at this time is that there is far, far more to the world than meets the eye or the mind.

It depends on whether or not your perception of soul mates and love relationships are based on movies, television, books and fairy tales.

^^ HOw come? 😕

Soul mate is more a term to describe a twin soul in a reincarnation type of thing...A soul that has split and that is so identical to you here on earth that you are pulled to.

I see...

My perception of SOULMATES before was that every body was born with a partner here on earth... dispite time, effort, distance... he/she will cross all boundaries...

Originally posted by tax
We claim to have found the true meaning of love. Then tell me why is there so much struggle and turmoil in this world?

You push me away
She starts to fall as it all fades away
She surrenders her everything to him
There's beauty in goodbye
Broken with nothing left to say
In silence I will love her still
You push me away
She loses herself in his touch
She feels comfort wrapped in his arms
There's beauty in goodbye
Broken with nothing left to say
In silence I will love her still
You push me away
She says that he completes her
She believes with him is where she belongs
There's beauty in goodbye
Broken with nothing left to say
In silence I will love her still
You pushed me away
I have no reason left to fight
"Where is the beauty in goodbye?"

Originally posted by Ashea16Chic
^^ HOw come? 😕

The popular understanding of the term "soulmate" is that, out there in the big wide world, is the love of your life, the person you are destined to be with.
Pop culture loves this idea; hollywood, tv and pop music push it like a drug.
Then again...ya never know...

Probably the biggest disappointment people (especially young people, due to less life experience) go through with love is that they discover the difference between loving who you thought, or hoped, the other person was, and then discovering who that other person really is (and for the sake of argument, we will assume that the "real person" is still a good person).
Then a choice has to be made: do you leave that person and pursue the illusion of "perfect love," or do you stay with that person and allow your love to mature into something that is, truly, real.

Again, this is especially tough becuase we have a pop culture that pushes fantasy as truth.

BAH i thought this was a vs venue

what i ment to say is after my last thread in here i hope itsa vs forum

so clumsy

Originally posted by Mindship

Probably the biggest disappointment people (especially young people, due to less life experience) go through with love is that they discover the difference between loving who you thought, or hoped, the other person was, and then discovering who that other person really is (and for the sake of argument, we will assume that the "real person" is still a good person).
Then a choice has to be made: do you leave that person and pursue the illusion of "perfect love," or do you stay with that person and allow your love to mature into something that is, truly, real.

I've experienced that before...

I chose the second one, I stayed but then I ended up realizing ... He will always be --- just a FRIEND

Love is for dreamers...

Does love just occur randomly or does it depend on the people in it? For example, this girl i love. i love her but she doesnt love me back. Well she doesnt know yet. Ill tell her one day but not yet. Am i supposed to try to make her love me or will she do it automatically? Basically im just wondering if i can make her love me.

Both actually... some people fall in love even if they're not yet in a relationship... and sometimes people fall in love because they're in one...

So you're saying that you are in a FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP with her...
Think about it.. DrDoom... if you want to achieve a higher status with her...like a BF-GF RELATIONSHIP... then you obviously have to make the first move... I mean... you're the one who likes her...