Originally posted by dave_kodakgive us a detailed report... 📖
Poster, i cant take it anymore... hiding my love for you would be a shame, mark me down as loony, my love for you is pure, i agree, i'll go with you to your friends house... 😛
Originally posted by dave_kodaksure.
nor do i... but it means you can be loved by all... does that mean i can keep hitting on you? 😱
Her boyfriend has told her repeatedly and sincerely that she is beautiful. But here's the problem--and this applies to all praise, really--the more he tells her she's beautiful, the more he sends the message that beauty is important. Admittedly, he's ALSO sending the message that she's doing well in that department, so it seems okay. But it seems to be the case that, so long as attention is paid to this aspect of her life, anything less than perceived perfection will seem to her like a failure, and she will always perceive herself to be less than perfect.
hmm
Originally posted by Sanctuary🤨 ... oookaaay
Her boyfriend has told her repeatedly and sincerely that she is beautiful. But here's the problem--and this applies to all praise, really--the more he tells her she's beautiful, the more he sends the message that beauty is important. Admittedly, he's ALSO sending the message that she's doing well in that department, so it seems okay. But it seems to be the case that, so long as attention is paid to this aspect of her life, anything less than perceived perfection will seem to her like a failure, and she will always perceive herself to be less than perfect.hmm