Originally posted by SanctuarySexist, that could go vice versa aswell. disgust
Her boyfriend has told her repeatedly and sincerely that she is beautiful. But here's the problem--and this applies to all praise, really--the more he tells her she's beautiful, the more he sends the message that beauty is important. Admittedly, he's ALSO sending the message that she's doing well in that department, so it seems okay. But it seems to be the case that, so long as attention is paid to this aspect of her life, anything less than perceived perfection will seem to her like a failure, and she will always perceive herself to be less than perfect.hmm
Originally posted by lord xyz
Sexist, that could go vice versa aswell. disgust
Originally posted by poster
I've never tried to torment her, just my love. I have no enemies ask my friend about me.