I don't know. My opinion on sex has changed. I'm not so focused on it as much as I use to be, maybe because I'm getting older? I can only speak for myself but I feel like the only way I can get an erection now is if I am turned on by the person I am sleeping with and it has to have some level of meaning. Sleeping with random strangers isn't really my thing anymore. I have lived and made peace with what I have done for validation and now I want a serious relationship that is meaningful moving forward.