You never cease to amaze me, in the worst way.
If someone is suffering in Japan, it doesn't bother or affect me in any way. I find the singular consciousness and the concept of us being eternal in spirit to be not only interesting, but something (following research and thinking about it) worth believing.
You however are applying it completely wrong. You are applying a personal belief to how everyone should act. Which is wrong. Anger isn't wrong, it isn't "bad", it isn't negative. It can be very constructive, positive and creative. This is a fact.
-AC