Good for you! 💃
On a more "serious but still likely to offend you since you spazzed out at reading one of the oldest jokes in the book" note...
If a woman is faking her orgasms, then she's likely in the same place, emotionally, as a man is when he doesnt care if his partner has them.
Never been a fan of that kind of sex.
Takes two to tango.
Most men intrinsically and subconsciously think sex is all about them, I think. They just assume a girl can come as easy as them. Turns out it isn't really as easy as "poke in, move a couple of times, then groan and fall asleep". Most guys I've overheard seem to think going for ten minutes is some kind of record. I've heard guys talk about a woman orgasming as if it's some mythical thing. Ridiculous.
I think the crux to it is, really, is that two people properly suited to each other sexually will just have that link in which they can get the most out of each other purely by giving their all to their partner. Most people just wander through life wanting sex, without realising that only some kind of people are suited to impersonal sex. Most people need a real connection, but they're so scared of being along they just latch onto the first person that comes by.
Er, this got a bit longer than I meant it to. awehuhs
Originally posted by Scribble
Most men intrinsically and subconsciously think sex is all about them, I think. They just assume a girl can come as easy as them. Turns out it isn't really as easy as "poke in, move a couple of times, then groan and fall asleep". Most guys I've overheard seem to think going for ten minutes is some kind of record. I've heard guys talk about a woman orgasming as if it's some mythical thing. Ridiculous.I think the crux to it is, really, is that two people properly suited to each other sexually will just have that link in which they can get the most out of each other purely by giving their all to their partner. Most people just wander through life wanting sex, without realising that only some kind of people are suited to impersonal sex. Most people need a real connection, but they're so scared of being along they just latch onto the first person that comes by.
Er, this got a bit longer than I meant it to. awehuhs
that is usally the case, i put her before myself though when it comes to sex. the best advice i have ever been given was "never skip the foreplay". i spend alot of time down there with my partner seeing what effects her more then most and have found some girls actually find it harder than most to have an orgasm, even if they are alone by themselves.
thats why fingers on G-spot and toungue slowly moving around in a paced rythem yeilds the best results. what ruins it for a girl is when the guy can see she is close and goes faster, BAAAM mistake as if she is close because of the paced movements you are performing speeding it up can make things erratic and just ruin her experience
Originally posted by Kharhmah
It's because we don't want to shatter your fragile masculinity by letting on that your less than rhythmic wiggling isn't actually doing a fxcking thing for us. js.
if they don't know how to do it then shatter then shatter that masculinity and tell them how to do it properly. nothiing worse then going down on a girl and having no clue what you are doin. just makes it akward for the girl
Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
if they don't know how to do it then shatter then shatter that masculinity and tell them how to do it properly. nothiing worse then going down on a girl and having no clue what you are doin. just makes it akward for the girl
Originally posted by Genesis-SoldierI've been there.... .when your rushing to open the lube bottle and it just won't open those few awkward moments can feel like torture! One thing I get a lot of complaints about the right amount of.pressure one should give when giving a blow job. "Your going to fast, your going to slow.. its like the more you try to please them the more you displease yourself. Everyones needs are different so how can you get what you want out of sex while still pleasuring yourself.
if they don't know how to do it then shatter then shatter that masculinity and tell them how to do it properly. nothiing worse then going down on a girl and having no clue what you are doin. just makes it akward for the girl