Don't pause during sex... this should be a rule. If it feels awkward for you it will def make her feel like everything is going wrong and after a few unsuccessful attempts you suddenly realize this is just not going to work. If your ever in that bind drop eveything and kiss her. Try new positions to keep the action going.. if you stop more then a few times she will think its her or you...whatever you do Stop Drop And Move...instead of rolling..lol