Your Wife/Husband Dies.....

Scenario 1: Your significant other is suddenly diagnosed with something that will tragically kill him/her within a few months. During those few months he/she tells you that they want you to remarry. Do you?

Scenario 2: The same story. Your significant other DOES NOT tell you if they want you to remarry or not. Do you? Or do you believe they'd want you to live off all of your memories of being together with them and stay single for the rest of your life.

🙂 I just thought it up and figured it would be cool to hear everyone's answers. 🙂

If I ever found someone else to love, then I would remarry, otherwise stay single.

You are aware that it is possible to fall in love with more than one person are you not?

Originally posted by DanieLs_4_Ever
Scenario 1: Your significant other is suddenly diagnosed with something that will tragically kill him/her within a few months. During those few months he/she tells you that they want you to remarry. Do you?

Scenario 2: The same story. Your significant other DOES NOT tell you if they want you to remarry or not. Do you? Or do you believe they'd want you to live off all of your memories of being together with them and stay single for the rest of your life.

🙂 I just thought it up and figured it would be cool to hear everyone's answers. 🙂

I'm 22 and not married but if I was married i would marry again possibly.

Originally posted by KharmaDog
You are aware that it is possible to fall in love with more than one person are you not?

either way i'd pull the plug on her to speed up the process 🙂

😱 KIDDING!!!!!!

Originally posted by PVS
either way i'd pull the plug on her to speed up the process 🙂

😱 KIDDING!!!!!!

Originally posted by Ken Kenobi
If I ever found someone else to love, then I would remarry, otherwise stay single.

Originally posted by DanieLs_4_Ever
No duh. Im not that dumb. But your wife/husband MAY OR MAY NOT want you to remarry! That's why I started this thread.

If that's the case, they never loved you in the first place, they were selfish people who put conditions on your behaviour after they had died. That is not love.

Originally posted by Ken Kenobi
If I ever found someone else to love, then I would remarry, otherwise stay single.

ditto

Originally posted by KharmaDog
If that's the case, they never loved you in the first place, they were selfish people who put conditions on your behaviour after they had died. That is not love.

Calm down, you're turning into Natalie~Luver

I agree with Ken...

If the person truely loved you they would want you to move on and be happy even if it wasn't with them....they'd know that the memory of your life and love togehter would be enough...

Originally posted by KharmaDog
You are aware that it is possible to fall in love with more than one person are you not?

Originally posted by Bloigen
Calm down, you're turning into Natalie~Luver

Not aware of who that is, but I am guessing that that is negative.

My point was basically if love is unconditional, and someone is putting conditions on it (even after they are no longer around) not only is it selfish, but it negastes the whole concept of love. So why would you let their wishes contrrol the rest of your life.

Originally posted by Bushwacker

And possibly at the same time.

Very true.

In either scenario, I can't be sure. As much as I would obviously love them, it's my decision to stay single or not. If not, it wouldn't be a light choice. I honestly can't say at this point.

-AC

couldn't remarry... if I did it wouldn't be because I truly loved them.. 😐 That place would already be taken.. 😐

The very fact that this is in the OTF, guarantees its not going to be taken seriously.

Originally posted by Bloigen
Calm down, you're turning into Natalie~Luver

No he's not, Natalie~Luver was a clueless brat who thought she was soooooo cool and so much better than the rest of us. And a hypocrite at that.

Originally posted by Vathu
couldn't remarry... if I did it wouldn't be because I truly loved them.. 😐 That place would already be taken.. 😐

Are you saying that you believe that it's possible to love only one person in your entire life?

Originally posted by KharmaDog
If that's the case, they never loved you in the first place, they were selfish people who put conditions on your behaviour after they had died. That is not love.