Re: Abuse in relationships
Originally posted by rox
do u agree that both people should keep there hands off each other or should the man just keep his hands off the woman what do u think.i think neither person should hit the other.
What are you on aboot ?
Mate,
My friend got vicously assaulted twice on his birthday by his girl for some unknown reason. The second assault resulted in a black-eye.
She didnt even apologise. It took her 3 days until she finally apologised. And during those 3 days, they didnt speak to eachother under the same roof.
You think that neither person should hit out.
Yet, sometimes, hitting out actually generates a reaction that improves a relationship. Hitting out is like a nudge and is there as a pull factor.
I believe some people should not be too pompous about themselves and accept a good punch when they are in the loss.
I know plenty of girls who have no problems hitting men but also say openly that they aren't gonna ***** if they get hit back. Which is fair, I think.
I don't like the idea of certain girls thinking they can openly beat a guy without him defending himself with retaliation.
I've never hit a girl, personally.
-AC
Originally posted by BackFire
No, people should hit eachother in relationships to teach the other person a lesson because sometimes verbally discussing problems takes too much time, and physical violence is such a time saver. A punch to the face will resolve problems much faster then wasting time talking it out.
and just in the nick of time BF comes in with the post of the year!! greatness!!
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You mean to say somebody actually married Chuck Norris? Oh, the humanity.
I guess it gets lonely out there on the plains of Texas. Oh when the eyes of the ranger are upon you...
But to topic - playful fighting which isn't intended to cause harm or hurt? No real problem. Of course there is no reason why a man and woman should be seriously fighting with the intent to hurt the other, though it happens. It is unacceptable for a man to beat up his wife, girlfirend, whatever. And it's equally bad for a women to do the same to her husband, though generally domestic violance is seen man using physcial vilence against a woman.
Personally I wouldn't hit a girl, even if she was hitting me, as there are plenty of non-violent ways to retaliate, the most basic being just removing oneself from the situation. Might seem silly, and probably not for everybody, but eh.