You're 13 years old Melinda, you've been dating him for 3 months. You can't really call that love. Doing so will just cause you even more heartbreak in the end because chances are you'll not be dating him for much longer, even if he weren't moving away. The odds of a couple of kids staying together until they are old enough for marriage...they are not good odds. Just don't call it love because you're too young to know what the true meaning of that word is.
So suck it up for now and wait to see how it all unfolds, you're still unsure if he will have to stay in America. If he does stay there I would suggest having a mutual break up because long distance relationships never work, plus it's hard on you. You want to be with them physically and you'll not be able to. Then he'll probably find someone new, or even you will.
For bloody hells sake, you have 3 choices, and like an inexperienced fool you'll be taking option 3.
1) End it now, save yourself a lot of pain and get over it quicker rather than lvining in self-torment.
2) Let him come, bang him, remember New Year's for something good.
3) Let him come, say goodbye, after he travelled all across theworld just so he could say that, then suffer a lot more heartbreak, and ruin a perfeclty good holiday.
Originally posted by melinda_warren
or if you r so wise.... wots going to happen if he comes and were in his bedroom on tuesday and i've told him goodbye?
How are we supposed to know. Either you'll get weak and sleep with him, or he will get angry, or he will understand, or he will end it first or whatever.
Originally posted by melinda_warrenAt least you'll remember him in a better light, and have a little somethign to take with you. It'll still hurt, but at least that way the trip and the extra torment was worth a little more.
or if you r so wise.... wots going to happen if he comes and were in his bedroom on tuesday and i've told him goodbye?