The Sancty and friends thread

Started by Jmanghan2,608 pages

Originally posted by Sancty
No I don't "see it that way" - it was that way. ✅ It wasn't like he just happened to like someone who was younger, he was being v. weird about it

I started dating my bf when I was underage - he was 20, he wasn't dating me for my age though.. liked me as a person & I happened to be younger

Well, would you count feelinv guilty as "caring" that they were younger then you? >.<

Originally posted by Jmanghan
Well, would you count feelinv guilty as "caring" that they were younger then you? >.<

I think that's completely different. that's like you're aware of the power imbalance due to your age and feel bad about pursuing the relationship

why would he feel guilty?

Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
Prozac and Lamictal help.

Lamictal is what he told me I should go on!! He wanted us to be on the same medication. That stuff scares the **** out of me

has he said anything to you since his wife found out?!

Originally posted by Sancty
It was probably an attempt at manipulating me so I would go to the US. He said my doctors here can't help me srug

That's awful. jfc. Do you see a therapist ?

yeah but stuff still happens that effects me deeply in my life

example of this, my ex (who i still have string feelings for) was kicked out of her house by her mother (who broke us up) and she has just left school and has nowhere to go. that made me furious then numb. then i cut

Originally posted by Sancty
Lamictal is what he told me I should go on!! He wanted us to be on the same medication. That stuff scares the **** out of me

I get really crazy when I'm off it.

Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
why would he feel guilty?

idk ask him? he just said he did lol

some people might feel guilty if the other person is less mature and more vulnerable to being exploited, so they're worried about doing something wrong

Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
I get really crazy when I'm off it.

is it a supressent or what ?

Originally posted by Sancty
idk ask him? he just said he did lol

some people might feel guilty if the other person is less mature and more vulnerable to being exploited, so they're worried about doing something wrong

god knows i did

Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
is it a supressent or what ?

A mood stabilizer.

sounds annoying

Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
sounds annoying

haermm The unstable moods or the Lamictal?

Originally posted by AbnormalButSane
I get really crazy when I'm off it.

are you on a high dose? did you have to scale up to avoid the ~~rash D:
scary side effects
idk nothing helps me except benzos
Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
yeah but stuff still happens that effects me deeply in my life

example of this, my ex (who i still have string feelings for) was kicked out of her house by her mother (who broke us up) and she has just left school and has nowhere to go. that made me furious then numb. then i cut

Do you have any other mental disorders or just depression? What happened to your ex? Hope she's okay..

Originally posted by Sancty
Lamictal is what he told me I should go on!! He wanted us to be on the same medication. That stuff scares the **** out of me
Ok, not that I was defending hik in the first place, but its small stuff like that that's just plain creepy.

Originally posted by Sancty
are you on a high dose? did you have to scale up to avoid the ~~rash D:
scary side effects
idk nothing helps me except benzos
Do you have any other mental disorders or just depression? What happened to your ex? Hope she's okay..

I'm on 100mg. hmm Staying steady at that. I didn't get a rash that I know of. Though it's hard to tell what's from my illness and what are side effects of the other drugs I'm taking.

Originally posted by Sancty
are you on a high dose? did you have to scale up to avoid the ~~rash D:
scary side effects
idk nothing helps me except benzos
Do you have any other mental disorders or just depression? What happened to your ex? Hope she's okay..

bad PTSD, lowlevel anxiety and low level mania

Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
yeah but stuff still happens that effects me deeply in my life

example of this, my ex (who i still have string feelings for) was kicked out of her house by her mother (who broke us up) and she has just left school and has nowhere to go. that made me furious then numb. then i cut

Cutting isn't the answer, dude, trust me.

The best step, from experience, is to just talk to someone you trust and have known for a long time, and let your feelings out.

Everyone's sad.

Guyz, look, look at the cute fox!

God bless its adorable little button nose...

Originally posted by Jmanghan
Ok, not that I was defending hik in the first place, but its small stuff like that that's just plain creepy.

yeah.
another creepy af thing he did was photoshop my head onto an image of a topless woman bc i wouldnt send him nudes awecrac we had a long argument over that. x: