Originally posted by Syren
But you know it was good, AC. You would have been proud of yourself if you'd thunk it up.
Is this where you slide out of the thread?
To PVS:
I admitted no wrong? What's this?:
"Fair enough, I should have indeed noted that it wasn't likely as opposed to not possible."
And you called me out for glazing over posts without reading.
As for Syren not losing her cool, I'm sure that even she isn't too proud to admit that doesn't apply to her.
-AC
Originally posted by manjaro
at least at that young age when she grows up she might not even remeber, ergo not scared away from dicks
Firstly how crude, good job 🙄
Secondly it most likely will damage her somewhat for the future and she'll most likely need counselling or some other type of help in the future, something like this because she is so young will most likely be repressed and then can come up unexpectedly who knows when.
Originally posted by Jedi Priestess
SHAME ON YOU IRENE!!! 😠😉 🙂
Forgive me madam ninja2
Originally posted by silver_tears
Firstly how crude, good job 🙄
Secondly it most likely will damage her somewhat for the future and she'll most likely need counselling or some other type of help in the future, something like this because she is so young will most likely be repressed and then can come up unexpectedly who knows when.
clapping
Thank you!! Many people have been trying to point this out, in defence of Debbie's statements regarding the child's potential trauma in years to come. Apparently she's too young to be able to remember anything in the future. But I agree with you, who's to say the demons won't suddenly appear?
Originally posted by Syren
clappingThank you!! Many people have been trying to point this out, in defence of Debbie's statements regarding the child's potential trauma in years to come. Apparently she's too young to be able to remember anything in the future. But I agree with you, who's to say the demons won't suddenly appear?
Nobody, at least anymore, is saying they won't. Just that it's also not definite that they will, as debbiejo originally implied and since has changed.
-AC
Originally posted by Syren
clappingThank you!! Many people have been trying to point this out, in defence of Debbie's statements regarding the child's potential trauma in years to come. Apparently she's too young to be able to remember anything in the future. But I agree with you, who's to say the demons won't suddenly appear?
Three years old is definitely not too young imo. I think they have the ability to tell that they've been violated, and especially if it's a violent assault for example, you don't forget things like that. They're just glazed over for a time.
And from personal experience, I remember things from when I was about 3.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Three years old is definitely not too young imo. I think they have the ability to tell that they've been violated, and especially if it's a violent assault for example, you don't forget things like that. They're just glazed over for a time.And from personal experience, I remember things from when I was about 3.
Imagine you had been victimised or experiences something equally as traumatic as sexual assault at the age of 3.
Are you of the belief that you would be better off if your parents didn't continually remind you, throughout your life, that you had been abused?
Just curious.
Originally posted by debbiejo
I remember things from three also, even 2. They came around at first in Nightmares.
You're claiming you remember things from when you were just two years old, from nightmares?
-AC
Originally posted by Alpha CentauriThe events don't come back in a way that would make since, but were more as frights from experiences...Not sexual abuse though in my life....Distorted fears that took years to understand and did change as years went by...Dreams are only shown mostly in symbolic language to events in ones subconsciousness.
You're claiming you remember things from when you were just two years old, from nightmares?-AC
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Imagine you had been victimised or experiences something equally as traumatic as sexual assault at the age of 3.Are you of the belief that you would be better off if your parents didn't continually remind you, throughout your life, that you had been abused?
Just curious.
I think it's important that the problem be dealt with, even if it means bringing it to light throughout her life.
I don't think that the parents should continually remind me for example, but I think they should seek the child some type of counselling and not just hope for the best that the child would simply forget it, because that could turn into a more serious problem later on.
Originally posted by debbiejo
The events don't come back in a way that would make since, but were more as frights from experiences...Not sexual abuse though in my life....Distorted fears that took years to understand and did change as years went by...Dreams are only shown mostly in symbolic language to events in ones subconsciousness.
So...you're claiming you remember things from two years old?
Irene:
I agree in that sense but my question way, do you think you would be better or worse off if your parents continually emphasised to you, the trauma? Akin to a parent being overly worried about their kid scraping their knee, making the situation worse.
-AC
Originally posted by silver_tearsTrue parents or others should not try to pull thing to the forefront, but should be educated on how to deal with the childs questions, acting out, which is sooooooo important, cause they could, and fears, but not try to be too into making them relive it cause children don't really know why they feel as they do...Parents need to get the ques from their kids and work carefully.
I think it's important that the problem be dealt with, even if it means bringing it to light throughout her life.
I don't think that the parents should continually remind me for example, but I think they should seek the child some type of counselling and not just hope for the best that the child would simply forget it, because that could turn into a more serious problem later on.
Originally posted by manjaro
thats why she doesnt need counseling,, cuz that means she's gonna remeber then, when those highschool years roll around she's gonna treat dicks like the plague, and we dont want that to happen now do we?......no seriously do we? 😕 😕
Apparently someone has seen through to the true problem here.
Well spotted.
Some other points, which I don't have the patience to quote-
Syren: no disrespect to AC (which is probably a shock to him), but if you often don't understand his posts, that's a reflection on you. They aren't pitched particularly high.
To various people: yes, we do know that the perpetrators were male, and the victim was actually a girl, so let's exorcise the masculine pronouns.