Originally posted by PVS
😂 be thankful i didnt do that in every thread. i had the power to end the remnants of your sanity and i chose not to use it. remember this charity 🙂
I'm not the kind of person who actually remembers favours you know.
But, you are a decent person so I will not hold it against you. If you wonder what, well..I don't know either.
They don't realize in this temporally state what they do to others that will live with it their whole life time.............They can't even see what they will and would become in 5, 10, 20..etc. years............kids, family, friends, jobs, parties, relationships.......god.....great stuff.............vacations.........they will miss out on it all.........
So sad...........really............
sorry ....didn't read through the whole thread...........but knew some who did commit their own deaths............as teens..
Originally posted by Bardock42
Well, what do you say has to be done?
I think that research - more - has to go into finding out why people bully others. The all round respons is jelously of the other person, but I just somehow don't believe that thats all that it is. And when the route of the bullying in mostly 99% of all case's is found out, then some way needs to be done about it.
No one in the world, has the right to destroy someone like that, they have no right what so ever. And it hurts me to see people who think they do have the right, if its none of my business and I see someone else hassling someone, I will step in and say something. I know what its like to have been there, most people have, and whats sadder is the people who have ... and then the people they turn into when they're older. Normally, abusive adults ... who then take it out on their children/partners/families.
Originally posted by spidergrl
I think that research - more - has to go into finding out why people bully others. The all round respons is jelously of the other person, but I just somehow don't believe that thats all that it is. And when the route of the bullying in mostly 99% of all case's is found out, then some way needs to be done about it.No one in the world, has the right to destroy someone like that, they have no right what so ever. And it hurts me to see people who think they do have the right, if its none of my business and I see someone else hassling someone, I will step in and say something. I know what its like to have been there, most people have, and whats sadder is the people who have ... and then the people they turn into when they're older. Normally, abusive adults ... who then take it out on their children/partners/families.
100% true
Meh...
Killing herself was stupid, and I feel sorry for ehr. Yet I'm happy for her, beacuse she's already in paradice than, she won't have to endure bullying and the harsh realities of life for a thousand years.
However, as I said, killing herself was stupid.
I am a tall black kid who lives in a sorta gruff school. Yet I talk like a suburbian white kid (I apoligize if that offended anyone) and play video games and build computers more than I play sports. As a result I get picked on every day. Always have been. I've been slapped, kicked, beaten down, I used to get my backpack flipped inside out almost every day. People woudl always talk about me, calling me an oreo to my face, and generaly disrespect me.
I told my parents, (my dad always told me to start beating ass)and counselors teachers, yet no one actually physicly helped me.
Yet I've NEVER come close to killing myself. I think about it sometimes, it's easy, one stab, shot, cut, and I'm automaticly in the new system. So easy, yet I still think about my parents, freinds, and family. Not really fair for them, because I'll be in paradise, yet my loved ones will still have to go through life, greaving for me.
So, all in all is it really worth it to take the easy way out, knowing your screwing over freinds and family? I don't think so.
So, I think that yes, what she did was selfsih. Yet I don't hold it against her. At the time she did it seemed like the only way, even though in the long run it's not.
Hell, my uncle killed himself by jumping off of a ten story building when he was 20. One of my sisters has tried to slit her wrists twice, my other sister has been to the mental hospital. My dad has been to the mental hospital, and so has my aunt.
Originally posted by spidergrl
No one in the world, has the right to destroy someone like that, they have no right what so ever. And it hurts me to see people who think they do have the right, if its none of my business and I see someone else hassling someone, I will step in and say something. I know what its like to have been there, most people have, and whats sadder is the people who have ... and then the people they turn into when they're older. Normally, abusive adults ... who then take it out on their children/partners/families.
How destructive do you think it is for a family when their beloved offspring kill themselves? Similarly they have no right to do that to their parents, right?
It's a bit off base to say you know what it's like, you don't. You might know what it's like to be suicidal, you don't know what it's like to be them and be suicidal, though.
-AC
Originally posted by Blaxican Hydra
I used to get my backpack flipped inside out almost every day.
Originally posted by botankus
Maybe I'm getting older, but I'm just trying to imagine this. Is this when someone comes behind you, unzips your backpack all the way down to the bottom, and then pushes upwards so your books fall on the floor behind you?
No, in my school you don't hang your backpack on chairs, you lay them on the floor next to you. And in the classes that I'm in we tend to move around the room alot, so when we mmove someone takes my backpack, takes the stuff out, flips it inside out, than puts the stuff back in.
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
How destructive do you think it is for a family when their beloved offspring kill themselves? Similarly they have no right to do that to their parents, right?It's a bit off base to say you know what it's like, you don't. You might know what it's like to be suicidal, you don't know what it's like to be them and be suicidal, though.
-AC
I've had a cousin .. who I was as close to as a brother for my whole 16 years of my life. I've seen him go through depression, suicidle attemptes and everything, I know how hard it was for me to watch him, I can imagine how its like for my friends and family to see me going through the same thing.
Originally posted by spidergrl
I've had a cousin .. who I was as close to as a brother for my whole 16 years of my life. I've seen him go through depression, suicidle attemptes and everything, I know how hard it was for me to watch him, I can imagine how its like for my friends and family to see me going through the same thing.
Precisely, you can only imagine what it's like for them. You going through it isn't the same as them going through it.
Different people experience different things.
-AC
Teen suicide .......I can understand it having as a cousin that did it............and knowing elders that have considered it also............
but remember............before you do decide to do it........sleep on it only one night.................things look different somehow in the morning sometimes.