Originally posted by silver_tears
I keep getting told that it will take a really secure guy to tie me down because I know exactly what I want and my personality is the type that will make sure I get it. I mean it's not bad to have standards right??
Originally posted by Thoren
No its not a bad thing to have standards. What if you started going out with a guy who was like an "artist", and you knew he wasn't very good, and that if you stayed with him, you'd be basically the income generator? That's not fair to you, he'd be basically taking advantage of your love for him, so its good to have standards when wanting a relationship with someone.
What does that mean? Hey I paint of the side...lol
Originally posted by rudester
Ok when it comes to guys from my experience. Their all liars..lol but obviously. (it doesnt matter what kind of job he has, as long as he treats you like the way you deserve and puts you first. Theres a big difference, a huge difference between a guy who works at a stock exchange and has no time for you to a guy who is always there. It doesnt mean you have to support him financially it just means you have to learn when to say no and just being able to have respect for yourself. Theres a huge difference between a guy down on his luck and a bum.I recently met this guy. I consider myself attractive enough to date almost anyone. Anyways, he's short but hes handsome. He doesnt have the best job, infact he is a cashier but I'm pretty sure his parents own the place. (but he has a job and lives on his own and thats more then most people) He talks a lot and doesn't know how to dress at all, "he has a orange jacket." But the first thing he said to me, woe your amazing." I wouldnt trade that for the world.
Ok when it comes to guys from my experience. Their all liars..lol but obviously. (it doesnt matter what kind of job he has, as long as he treats you like the way you deserve and puts you first. Theres a big difference, a huge difference between a guy who works at a stock exchange and has no time for you to a guy who is always there. It doesnt mean you have to support him financially it just means you have to learn when to say no and just being able to have respect for yourself. Theres a huge difference between a guy down on his luck and a bum.
I recently met this guy. I consider myself attractive enough to date almost anyone. Anyways, he's short but hes handsome. He doesnt have the best job, infact he is a cashier but I'm pretty sure his parents own the place. (but he has a job and lives on his own and thats more then most people) He talks a lot and doesn't know how to dress at all, "he has a orange jacket." But the first thing he said to me, woe your amazing." I wouldnt trade that for the world.