Ganner Rhysode
Jedi Knight
Re: Re: With ANY relationship regardless of circumstance, sex is involved.
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Not necessarily. I don't size members of the opposite sex up. When you get a boyfriend/girlfriend and have been dating them for a year and 4 months, sex with anyone else is way over your head unless you're some kind of sex addict retard.
And as for friends, it's the same. Most of my friends in real life are male, I don't size them up. I don't think about whether or whether not I want to have sex with them. I just think of them as friends.
By the time you get there, yes, it doesn't matter. But when you FIRST see a person, what's the FIRST thing you notice? Their personality? How complex their thoughts are? Their philosophies on life? No, it's their appearance, and whether you like to admit it or not, you make judgments, even tiny and nigh-significant ones, based off of that. You notice if you find them attractive or not.
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
He'd never lie to me.
You can think that, and it might be true, but you can never know for sure. Just like you can never know for sure that he, or anyone, loves you.
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I do know for a fact that he thinks of no one else but I in a sexual way.
Apparently you don't know what a "fact" is. There's no possible way you can read his mind and be sure that everything he tells you, everything he acts like, and everything that seems to be true is, indeed, 100% what he's thinking.