With ANY relationship regardless of circumstance, sex is involved.

Originally posted by BobbyD
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I think I should be the first woman president then if you're saying that it's not probable of someone to not size a person up before dating them....because I didn't on Daniel, Jon, OR Lenny. All of my 3 exes.

May explain why those guys are now exactly what they are.....exes. 😬 [/B][/QUOTE]
#1: Jon: I didn't feel anything for him anymore. We were more friends than boyfriend/girlfriend.
#2: Lenny: I liked Daniel first of all, and second of all, once again, he and I were like friends and never got to see each other anyway.
#3: Daniel: Too much fighting.

🙄

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
#1: Jon: I didn't feel anything for him anymore. We were more friends than boyfriend/girlfriend.
#2: Lenny: I liked Daniel first of all, and second of all, once again, he and I were like friends and never got to see each other anyway.
#3: Daniel: Too much fighting.

🙄

Well, you're a free woman now. You go, girl! 😉

Heheh. Thanks 😉.
I'm kind of laying low now. I mean I'd like to have someone again, but I'm scared in some ways. I'm not scared of getting hurt, I'm scared that the person that I find next will not have as good of traits/personality as Daniel did, etc etc. And also scared that Daniel might want to get back together in the future and I'll already be taken and will never know that that's what his intentions are; getting back with me.

*tryes to seem to have Daniels good traits* Hey, interested in a long distance relationchip with an anonymus guy? We never have to meet and the relationchip can be purely sexual... Interested?LOL

Mwahahah....erm..No. I don't do long distance. No point in a long distance relationship, in my opinion. Sorry.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Heheh. Thanks 😉.
I'm kind of laying low now. I mean I'd like to have someone again, but I'm scared in some ways. I'm not scared of getting hurt, I'm scared that the person that I find next will not have as good of traits/personality as Daniel did, etc etc. And also scared that Daniel might want to get back together in the future and I'll already be taken and will never know that that's what his intentions are; getting back with me.

Kelly, under no circumstances does your life concern him anymore. If your paths should cross at some point in the future, then worry about it then. Right now, your life belongs to you (always has & will). I might add your body belongs to you (always has; always will). You will not be unfair to next male. Nor should you even get involved mangomously in a relationship at this point, based on the above response.

Your choices, be single and alone for a while...you'll learn/grow and won't even realize it. Your self esteem will increase also. The other option (if you're strong enough emotionally) is to date aa many men as you'd like w/o becoming emotionally involved. Either way, your heart will heal; and that's all that matters............you. 😉

OK... then how about a short distance relationship with the above metioned? LOL😄

Though my life shouldn't concern him, and in some ways it doesn't anymore, it does. It cannot be stopped. He is in my thoughts throughout the day. Our paths cross everyday because we have school together; 2 classes together. I'm kind of in a little rut between two guys (neither of them are Daniel) that are friends of mine and are showing interest. One drove me to the movies this past Friday to see Jackass 2 our second time. He's very nice, VERY stable in money at the age of 18, very funny, etc. But he may be a bit too sexual for me and I don't like my body enough to be able to open up to another person after what Daniel and I shared, knew about each other, etc.. The other guy, who was supposed to go with me, bailed because he had work. He's very sweet, attractive, and makes me laugh as well, but works CONSTANTLY (no exaggeration). I wouldn't want a relationship with a person who works constantly and has no time for me.

Originally posted by Madman_V3N0M
OK... then how about a short distance relationship with the above metioned? LOL😄

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Though my life shouldn't concern him, and in some ways it doesn't anymore, it does. It cannot be stopped. He is in my thoughts throughout the day. Our paths cross everyday because we have school together; 2 classes together. I'm kind of in a little rut between two guys (neither of them are Daniel) that are friends of mine and are showing interest. One drove me to the movies this past Friday to see Jackass 2 our second time. He's very nice, VERY stable in money at the age of 18, very funny, etc. But he may be a bit too sexual for me and I don't like my body enough to be able to open up to another person after what Daniel and I shared, knew about each other, etc.. The other guy, who was supposed to go with me, bailed because he had work. He's very sweet, attractive, and makes me laugh as well, but works CONSTANTLY (no exaggeration). I wouldn't want a relationship with a person who works constantly and has no time for me.

Both are good examples of what you need (at this point). And please, don't be selfish with the "guy who has no time for me" attitude. You will find that your future husband, should you get married, will have little time for you, if he is indeed a dedicated husband and father. For now, I can understand your point of view. However, seeing someone very little at a time might just be exactly what you need. You don't need an everyday committment again.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Though my life shouldn't concern him, and in some ways it doesn't anymore, it does. It cannot be stopped. He is in my thoughts throughout the day. Our paths cross everyday because we have school together; 2 classes together.

Tis natural for now. But, if you allow yourself a little at a time (everyday) to forget about him, you will. Trust me. It will happen.

Healing takes times. But jumping/rebounding into another relationship with another guy is NOT what you need at this time. Getting into another relationship doesn't mean you've healed......just mean you've put the old feelings underneath the surface.

I know what you're saying but right now I'm a teenager and I like to go out and do things with my mate and not have to worry about him not showing up even though he said he would, or not being able to do anything because he's busy steralizing needles at the tattoo parlor instead of out seeing a movie with me. As bad as that sounds, it's what I feel. I felt a lot better with a commitmental relationship.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I know what you're saying but right now I'm a teenager and I like to go out and do things with my mate and not have to worry about him not showing up even though he said he would, or not being able to do anything because he's busy steralizing needles at the tattoo parlor instead of out seeing a movie with me. As bad as that sounds, it's what I feel. I felt a lot better with a commitmental relationship.

Then just hang out with your family and your girlfriends. They will ALWAYS be there if you make time for them. Forget the man/men. If it's booty you need, you can get it anytime sister. 😉

Ok.. I'm cutting the joke of a long distance sexual relationchip(^.^). Actually I'm not that interested in sex, I mean... it's nice but it's not why I would get in a relationchip. And I can be just as sexual as the next guy but it's not on the top of my list when I look at girls or when I'm flirting or stuff. Maybe I'm weird, but that's it.

And can someone help me with something? A long time ago i had a girl whom I had a crush on, she turned me down in favor for another guy. Before that we were good friends but after she just avoided me(I didn't do anything to get her mad at me or something) and for about a year we went our separate ways with school and stuff and barely spoke.
A little while back we met accidentally and I got her yahoo mess id, and she seems to stop speaking to me every time I use tha ": x"(love) smiley, even if I explained I use it very oftain with everybody in the context of ": x"&": )>-"!(Love and Peace! - VASH!) and once accidentaly which I also explained was an accident. Lately she doesn't want to speak with me at all... doesn't she believe me? Does she think I'm still in love with her? We were such good friends before🙁 I even helped her snag her present boyfriend. (Yes I am a kind of Cupid)

Originally posted by Madman_V3N0M
Ok.. I'm cutting the joke of a long distance sexual relationchip(^.^). Actually I'm not that interested in sex, I mean... it's nice but it's not why I would get in a relationchip. And I can be just as sexual as the next guy but it's not on the top of my list when I look at girls or when I'm flirting or stuff. Maybe I'm weird, but that's it.

And can someone help me with something? A long time ago i had a girl whom I had a crush on, she turned me down in favor for another guy. Before that we were good friends but after she just avoided me(I didn't do anything to get her mad at me or something) and for about a year we went our separate ways with school and stuff and barely spoke.
A little while back we met accidentally and I got her yahoo mess id, and she seems to stop speaking to me every time I use tha ": x"(love) smiley, even if I explained I use it very oftain with everybody in the context of ": x"&": )>-"!(Love and Peace! - VASH!) and once accidentaly which I also explained was an accident. Lately she doesn't want to speak with me at all... doesn't she believe me? Does she think I'm still in love with her? We were such good friends before🙁 I even helped her snag her present boyfriend. (Yes I am a kind of Cupid)

When she breaks up with the new guy, dismiss the ungrateful beeyatch.
For now, YOU put on a fake act of friendship. When she tries to make nice-nice after the break-up, tell her to take a hike if she can't handle a friendship with a guy who no longer cares about her emotionally anymore. Yes, it is quite possible that she is delusional and thinks you still like her even after setting her up with her currect fling.

Hmm...me thinks women is weird 🤨.LOL
I allways thought that they say "lets just be friends", but they think that when guys do it it's a lie... what should I understand from this? 🙄 🤨

Originally posted by Madman_V3N0M
Hmm...me thinks women is weird 🤨.LOL
I allways thought that they say "lets just be friends", but they think that when guys do it it's a lie... what should I understand from this? 🙄 🤨

They (women) have every reason though to think a guy is lying when one says that. However, seeing as though you set her up with her current squeeze, I just don't know what more proof she needs.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Then just hang out with your family and your girlfriends. They will ALWAYS be there if you make time for them. Forget the man/men. If it's booty you need, you can get it anytime sister. 😉

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I've been hanging with the family a lot of the time but I have only a few female friends, most of them are male, and most of them are the same friends Daniel and I share together. Me? Need ass? Lol, I'm not really like that. Daniel and I never really had that sexual of a relationship together, I mean we did, but it wasn't an OFF THE HOOK EVERY DAY thing.

When you "get it" from your next partner, Daniel will be distant memory. But, don't get into a relationship with that person. Keep it purely sexual, even if it's a one time encounter....hopefully, with someone you'll never see again. 🙂

Why in God's name would I do that?