Originally posted by Evil Dead
The drive in males is to coppulate.....often. The concern is not for asthetics......merely for the act itself. Females are selective. They want the best possible sperm they can get.
Interesting. I knew that in a scientific point of view, but I didn´t notice that is associated to our behavior. In the end we do nothing more than what any animal do.
Originally posted by Ya Krunk'd FlooWell it's your world........... 😂 .........And your word about it.!!
Is the problem that my rocking of worlds makes the rest of the males of the species look bad?Sorry for that. Sorry.
Originally posted by Mindship
*deciphering the above.............the one thing that comes (no pun, behave) through loud and clear: the good glass of wine* wine
You get brownie points for trying to decipher...........hahahaha
i agree some parts but even an ''ugly'' man can get some either by changing its appearance (dress nicely good hygiene working out to lose some weight)
there is no such thing as ugly. change the appearance would attract opposite sex.
oh yea talk to them and be neutral. be friendly. make friends with opposite sex. dont state your intent. or telegraph interest. because stating your intent or telegraphing interest WILL PUT WOMEN'S GUARD UP. as in they are locking their legs so that your penis will NEVER get through.
Oh, this claim again?? 😄
The female sex-drive is a strong as that of the male. Trust me, or see “Eyes wide shut” with Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman.
What can be said about the two genders is this: Men are more visual when it comes to partners than women, hence the reason for strip-clubs and porno and why some women get all sorts of plastic surgery.
Women are more social when it comes to partners than men. But trust you me, men are not out to “copulate” 24/7, men can’t perform 24/7 and being a woman… I know this for a fact 😉
If you knew the number of times I’ve heard my girlfriends go “Okay, where ARE all the men who’re just out to have sex?”, you may be surprised.
Women, however, still today have to fight off all kinds of negative words like “sl*t” and “wh*re” if they’re very sexually active, or sleeps with the guy on the first date!
There are no such words for the very sexually active male… Go figure.
Originally posted by The Omega
Oh, this claim again?? 😄The female sex-drive is a strong as that of the male. Trust me, or see “Eyes wide shut” with Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman.
What can be said about the two genders is this: Men are more visual when it comes to partners than women, hence the reason for strip-clubs and porno and why some women get all sorts of plastic surgery.
Women are more social when it comes to partners than men. But trust you me, men are not out to “copulate” 24/7, men can’t perform 24/7 and being a woman… I know this for a fact 😉
If you knew the number of times I’ve heard my girlfriends go “Okay, where ARE all the men who’re just out to have sex?”, you may be surprised.
Women, however, still today have to fight off all kinds of negative words like “sl*t” and “wh*re” if they’re very sexually active, or sleeps with the guy on the first date!
There are no such words for the very sexually active male… Go figure.
H'mmm
First of all, I would disagree that the female sex drive is as strong as a male's. My impression is, once a gal's motor gets started, it is stronger than a male's. More of a woman's body is devoted to reproduction than a man's; it only makes sense that She is the Sexually Superior being. Hell, it's one of the reasons men have sought to repress female sexuality throughout history. On the other hand, it does take less ignition to get the man's motor running and we are less discriminating.
And while men can't physically copulate literally 24/7, if provided with an unending source of appetizing females, most men probably would spend their waking hours bangin' away once the refractory phase passed. Ever hear of that experiment where rats have their pleasure centers wired up to a button: they press the button and bliss ensues? They won't even stop to eat. The only thing that stops them is exhaustion, and then they get right back to it. Well...men.
Lastly, while I don't doubt many women are out there just for a fling, there are also a lot of women--teenage girls, actually--who feel pressured to become sexually active due to peer influence. This happens to teenage boys too, but to a lesser degree.
I would agree that in some ways women have it harder than men in terms of sex. For one thing, theres the pain most experience the first time (or times) they have sex. Plus, whilst men are pretty much guarenteed an orgasm every time, for women the whole situation of is a little more complicated. I think in some cases it could be these reasons that make women hold back from sex more than men - it makes sense that you want to trust and care about the person your letting inside your body.
But thats not to say all women are holdsing back from sex, as IMO the first post seems to be suggesting. Some women are vewry comfortable with thier sexuality, and enjoy casual sex. Anyway, are you really saying you dont know any men who are picky about who they have sex with? Judgeing by what I know about the people in my life and thier attitudes towards sex, it's more to do with personal opinion than gender.
Or maybe these guys are finding it hard to find a woman to have sex with them not beacuse they all have high standards, as they seem to think - but simply because they're not desperate.
Originally posted by The Omega
Oh, this claim again?? 😄Women, however, still today have to fight off all kinds of negative words like “sl*t” and “wh*re” if they’re very sexually active, or sleeps with the guy on the first date!
There are no such words for the very sexually active male… Go figure.
Madam i will have to correct you right there sexually active guys are what are now refered to as studs and pimps. 😉
Originally posted by Kevin Smith
We would **** a hole in a tree if we could for ****s sake. If women thought like men when it came to sex then i swear there would be people doing it in the mother****ing streets!, but nooooooooo, women have to go and have standards . Being an ugly dude gets you no sex(believe me, i know), but being an ugly chick will still have men lining up to get a piece, it's because we don't give a ****!!, why do women care so much about all that ****, i need someone to explain this to me because i literally do not know women.
You're right, you don't know women. And that is the reason why you have trouble getting laid.
Any man, and I mean ANY man, can get ANY woman, if he can sweep her off her feet. If you can charm a woman, if you have charisma, and ''that something about you'' regardless of how ''ugly'' a guy is, he CAN pull a stunning looking girl.
Remember....charm and charisma.
Which is of course, false. Because there are girls out there who wouldn't touch certain guys unless they were rich or good looking.
Fair enough, everyone has standards. I just think it's ridiculous when the standards you request are better than you are. "I want a rich, outstandingly gorgeous, funny, charming, attractive man with an awesome job." "Are you a rich, outstandingly gorgeous, funny, charming, attractive woman with an awesome job?" "No." "Shut up then."
Of course, there are men the same.
-AC
Originally posted by lil bitchiness
You're right, you don't know women. And that is the reason why you have trouble getting laid.Any man, and I mean ANY man, can get ANY woman, if he can sweep her off her feet. If you can charm a woman, if you have charisma, and ''that something about you'' regardless of how ''ugly'' a guy is, he CAN pull a stunning looking girl.
Remember....charm and charisma.
I agree 100%
Mind is the sexiest part of any person. Given the choice between a facially/physically beautiful woman with a crappy personality, and a regular gal with a playful devil's gleam in her eye, I'd pick the latter, hand's down.
As a vaguely related question: Why are female avatars more popular than male avatars? I mean, I see plenty of guys with female avatars, but offhand, I can't think of even 1 female who has a male avatar. So who has it tougher: female or male avatars? 🤣
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
I think it's because females, for the most part (straight or not), find the female form better to look at and more picturesque.Look at any female with a female avatar/sig, it's not normally some random girl in a random pose.
-AC
Yeah, makes sense. It's like the women sort of identify somewhat with their avatar, whereas the guys with the femtars are expressing a message more like "she's hot -- I'd like to bang 'er"...... well, except for those guys who'd like to be female... 😉
Originally posted by lil bitchiness
Any man, and I mean ANY man, can get ANY woman, if he can sweep her off her feet. If you can charm a woman, if you have charisma, and ''that something about you'' regardless of how ''ugly'' a guy is, he CAN pull a stunning looking girl.Remember....charm and charisma.
Originally posted by botankus
So you're saying this "Kevin Smith" (ahem, the KMC User, not the actor) has a chance at getting Lil' B if he suddenly sweeps her off of her feet? 😉
Sure. 😖mart:
Charisma, personality and charm can go a long way for a guy, regardless of how unattractive he is. Women, no matter what they say, LOVE to be swept off their feet, and if a man knows how, then hes in the lead.
I don't believe for a second that you would date a guy you found to be unattractive based on how he acted. I don't mean that in any offensive way, but the way you have spoken in reference to "ugly" guys and attractive men before leads me to believe this.
However, if you mean what you say then good for you.
-AC