Lightsnake, I will repeat once more. Unless it is in the films or GL's comments, it is NOT film canon OR made any more official, no matter how much GL approved of the work. He works by very simple rules- it doesn't matter if he approves it or not, if it is not his work, it doesn't count. EU authors are very much aware of that.
Ignore everything else. Watch the film. Ignore all the other nonsense. The situation is clear. KAM is NOT wrong- that is information being given to the viewer. The TPM novel is contradicted by GL himself, so your point there is wrong also. GL makes it clear that the Rule of Two had been going on for thousands of years.
Sorry- it is the EU that is wrong.