My sympathies, Reximus.
I do think it's honestly a shitter that she took away your choice. "I'm leaving you because I don't think it's fair on you, and I don't think it's right for you."
Clearly she didn't think "Wait, maybe he should decide all that." Very sore way to end things, cowardly and patronising also.
Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Seeing as you're a guy, you're probably taking it better than a woman would.
You base this on what? Just curious.
-AC
Originally posted by NineCoronasI kept busy as well when going through this same thing.... cleaning... course I did other things that even though legal due to my age.... I still shouldnt have done 😖....... never mind bag
Shit, this is bringing back bad memories of mine. Good idea... clean. Just keep busy cleaning.
and to Jordan: Its hard to know what to do in the aftermath.... just dont beat yourself up to much.... easier said then done I know but Prestons right....
Originally posted by -Tired Hiker-
I know this will sound cheesy, Rex, but time heals all. It's tough, but you'll get through it. Focus on yourself now, do what's right for you, stick to it, and you will grow into a better person. Not that you are so bad now, of course. 🙂
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
My sympathies, Reximus.I do think it's honestly a shitter that she took away your choice. "I'm leaving you because I don't think it's fair on you, and I don't think it's right for you."
Clearly she didn't think "Wait, maybe he should decide all that." Very sore way to end things, cowardly and patronising also.
You know, I'll probably show her what you just said. You've said it way better than I can right now. I can barely talk without ****ing up my words.
Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
My sympathies, Reximus.I do think it's honestly a shitter that she took away your choice. "I'm leaving you because I don't think it's fair on you, and I don't think it's right for you."
Clearly she didn't think "Wait, maybe he should decide all that." Very sore way to end things, cowardly and patronising also.
You base this on what? Just curious.
-AC
Originally posted by Captain REX
You know, I'll probably show her what you just said. You've said it way better than I can right now. I can barely talk without ****ing up my words.
but the truth is that she was just trying to sugar coat the truth. it was all her prolbem. cause if you truly love someone you want to work it out. you stand by eachothers sides no matter what, even feelings.
Originally posted by ILoveMyDanielthat is totally false.... my husband cried when our marriage failed and I left him... he cried a lot.
I base it on everything. Every situation I've seen a man in. A man does not cry when hurt, a man does not cry when a broken relationship ends, a man does not cry when a broken marriage fails....Why deny it and ask me how I know? I realise a man does not have to cry to take any situation in a hard way, but that's why I said men take it less roughly than women, because MOST women DO cry when in situations alike.
and my ex... Jordan knows who I mean... he cried too... he cried with me in person and cried as we split up too.
men cry.... your statement is false Kelly. take it from someone who knows from experience.
Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
I base it on everything. Every situation I've seen a man in. A man does not cry when hurt, a man does not cry when a broken relationship ends, a man does not cry when a broken marriage fails....Why deny it and ask me how I know? I realise a man does not have to cry to take any situation in a hard way, but that's why I said men take it less roughly than women, because MOST women DO cry when in situations alike.
Let's be honest, you're basing it on nothing major. You are basing it on personal experience, nothing more.
You are sitting there saying that men don't cry when they're hurt, when a relationship ends or when a marriage fails. How far exactly have you lived life? Your porch? Because that is the dumbest thing I've read in the OTF recently.
You don't know "men". You know some men, and those men happen to not cry. It doesn't mean men as a gender take things easier. It means the men you know take things easier.
Such uneducated, immature diatribe.
-AC