Originally posted by Regret
I was not speaking as to discernment of one or another, I was speaking to our attitude towards them. We may discern that another has erred, but we must love him and show him respect all the same.It is an error to show disrespect, one should respect all of God's creations. One may respect another while not agreeing with them. I fail at times in this (at times I have been disrespectful to a few on this forum even), but I strive to overcome my weaknesses.
For the most part I agree, but we should demonstrate love and respect for the person, not for the opinion though...😉
And remember, sometimes loving and respecting someone isn't always about saying exactly what someone wants to hear. So even if my ego is wounded(which it has been many times within this forum and many other times in life..lol) I'd much rather suffer a bruised ego -- after receiving a brusque tongue-lashing and being corrected over possessing an evil opinion, as oppossed to not receiving any correction, and inadvertently conforming to the idealogy which the evil opinion supported. I think it's also important that we sincerely pray to God to instill us with a spirit of discernment, so we don't become lead astray by evil opinions.
All this being stated, some opinions do fall in the neutral zone -- neutral meaning, not really being "good or evil" -- but just related to personal preference. Many of us often times don't do a good job of respecting these types of opinions(myself included). Just look at the Comic Book vs Forum, and you'll see a ton of people flying off the handle over such neutral opinions like who'll win in a fictional battle of "Spider-Man vs Wolverine."
I seriously doubt God is going to judge anyone over whether or not they voted Spiderman or Wolvie(although he might judge wolverine888 or this guy I hear about so often named whobdamandog..I was reading some of their older comic book vs threads and these two guys went a little wild with their fanboyistic opinions)
Anyway, God is definitely a God about allowing as many choices as possible as well as freedom of expression. All this of course is tempered with loving moderation. The only problems that arise are when people leave out the "loving moderation" part, and take this freedom to the extreme thinking that it should also be applied to evil opinions - which in turn changes freedom of expression into anarchy. The other evil extreme is when someone becomes so obsessed with their correct opinion, they forget to temper the opinion with Love, and essentially become tyrannical.
Whenever I find myself sliding into these two zones with my opinions, it always helps me to remember the following verses --
Ecclesiastes 7:16-18
16Do not be excessively righteous and do not be overly wise. Why should you ruin yourself?
17Do not be excessively wicked and do not be a fool. Why should you die before your time?
18It is good that you grasp one thing and also not let go of the other; for the one who fears God comes forth with both of them.