Originally posted by LanaAwee, baby. I love you too.
Don't you ever dare tell me that an online relationship is not real.Because the sort of feelings and emotions can be equally strong as a real-life one.
Cheating is cheating, end of story.
Would you like it if you had a girlfriend -- in real life -- and she was cheating with you with someone online, or would you not care because it's 'not real'?
Originally posted by Lana
Don't you ever dare tell me that an online relationship is not real.Because the sort of feelings and emotions can be equally strong as a real-life one.
Cheating is cheating, end of story.
Would you like it if you had a girlfriend -- in real life -- and she was cheating with you with someone online, or would you not care because it's 'not real'?
Depends, Its all situated.
And Sorry, but I don't think if a 14-15 year old gets on an Internet relationship much is going to happen, Because they may say they'll go see them when they're old enough or something but thats bull, they'll find someone who lives near them.
(By Online I mean, Lives FAR away not in the city or at least an hours away, thats not long distance or anything)
But seriously, If I caught my REAL LIFE girlfriend cheating with me online I'd be pissed because I don't believe in Online relationships, but it would seem we weren't right for each other because she cheated on me for someone Online, which I doubt would happen.
Cheating with someone you know over a forum is Bullshit, and it always will be.
You May Have Strong Emotions over the Internet, but still, Internet relationships (Aka Long Distances) Usually fail.
Originally posted by Lana
Err....wow.Did not know that.
I must say that cheating on someone is probably one of the lowest things you can do 😬
Originally posted by Lana
Don't you ever dare tell me that an online relationship is not real.Because the sort of feelings and emotions can be equally strong as a real-life one.
Cheating is cheating, end of story.
Would you like it if you had a girlfriend -- in real life -- and she was cheating with you with someone online, or would you not care because it's 'not real'?
Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Depends, Its all situated.And Sorry, but I don't think if a 14-15 year old gets on an Internet relationship much is going to happen, Because they may say they'll go see them when they're old enough or something but thats bull, they'll find someone who lives near them.
(By Online I mean, Lives FAR away not in the city or at least an hours away, thats not long distance or anything)
But seriously, If I caught my REAL LIFE girlfriend cheating with me online I'd be pissed because I don't believe in Online relationships, but it would seem we weren't right for each other because she cheated on me for someone Online, which I doubt would happen.
Cheating with someone you know over a forum is Bullshit, and it always will be.
You May Have Strong Emotions over the Internet, but still, Internet relationships (Aka Long Distances) [b]Usually
fail. [/B]
Well that's your opinion, but I don't think you'll really understand it unless you ever experience it.
I used to not believe in online relationships. Well guess what happened to that.
And the main reason that online/long-distance relationships fail is due to a lack of trust and honesty. And cheating would certainly lend to that. Hell...that goes for ANY relationship. And from what I've seen in life, people generally do not act any different offline from online, so if someone cheats in an online relationship...what does that tell you will likely happen in an offline one?
Originally posted by Commando Queen
I'v been cheated on by a few guys it sucks, and betrayed by another. It's no fun 🙁 I'v never cheated and never wouldI agree
I've been cheated on in real life, and in an online relationship I was in once...it hurts the same either way, so I don't really see what Vinny is getting at, seeing as how he's not experienced it.
That said, I'm staying out of the rest of this.
My personal opinion, if your getting into an online relationship you both have to belive in it and have trust.. it will never work otherwise. but people just think the interned is a way to prove to themselves that they can get a person.. instead of going out and trying.. because sooner or later the person is going to just keep lookin for more things to make them secure
Originally posted by Lana
Well that's your opinion, but I don't think you'll really understand it unless you ever experience it.I used to not believe in online relationships. Well guess what happened to that.
And the main reason that online/long-distance relationships fail is due to a lack of trust and honesty. And cheating would certainly lend to that. Hell...that goes for ANY relationship. And from what I've seen in life, people generally do not act any different offline from online, so if someone cheats in an online relationship...what does that tell you will likely happen in an offline one?
Sorry, I have been in an online relationship before, and Two of my friends were too, and it pretty much ruined their lives.
An Online relationship I would say is Possible for 18+ Person. But For 12-17 year olds? 😬 Come On. Thats just a load of crap right there. They most likely don't have the money to fly up to see someone they met on the Internet and I bet there parents wouldn't approve too much. And They might say they wait but seriously, hoe many times does that happen? 1/1000 ?
Well, If someone doesn't take the Internet seriously? I don't know really what to say to that last thing because most my friends don't ac the same online, they are alot more closed in offline, if that makes any sense....
Originally posted by Vinny Valentine
Sorry, I have been in an online relationship before, and Two of my friends were too, and it pretty much ruined their lives.An Online relationship I would say is Possible for 18+ Person. But For 12-17 year olds? 😬 Come On. Thats just a load of crap right there. They most likely don't have the money to fly up to see someone they met on the Internet and I bet there parents wouldn't approve too much. And They might say they wait but seriously, hoe many times does that happen? 1/1000 ?
Well, If someone doesn't take the Internet seriously? I don't know really what to say to that last thing because most my friends don't ac the same online, they are alot more closed in offline, if that makes any sense....
Originally posted by Vinny ValentineYou can't honestly say that a 12 year old kid is going to be in a serious relationship. I didn't even like girls, back then. Online or off.
Sorry, I have been in an online relationship before, and Two of my friends were too, and it pretty much ruined their lives.An Online relationship I would say is Possible for 18+ Person. But For 12-17 year olds? 😬 Come On. Thats just a load of crap right there. They most likely don't have the money to fly up to see someone they met on the Internet and I bet there parents wouldn't approve too much. And They might say they wait but seriously, hoe many times does that happen? 1/1000 ?
Well, If someone doesn't take the Internet seriously? I don't know really what to say to that last thing because most my friends don't ac the same online, they are alot more closed in offline, if that makes any sense....
Originally posted by LanceWindu
I've been cheated on in real life, and in an online relationship I was in once...it hurts the same either way, so I don't really see what Vinny is getting at, seeing as how he's not experienced it.That said, I'm staying out of the rest of this.
Sorry, I have Ken, and I fell pretty in love with this girl I was with. Then I she realised that she would never be able to see me so she dumped me. When I had full intentions on seeing her. But, being fool minded and younger, I tried it again. Guess what happened?
I know what it feels like, and thats why I think Internet Relationships are a load of Shit unless your Old enough to work with it.
Originally posted by Commando Queen
so what if your the one person out of 1000? and you meet the person that your going to be with for the rest of your life.. would you just skip that oppertunity just because its something you've never belived in?
999 People Feel Like Shit, 1 Person Feels Good.
Pretty Crappy Results right there.
Originally posted by ~Da Rev~
You can't honestly say that a 12 year old kid is going to be in a serious relationship. I didn't even like girls, back then. Online or off.
Sorry, it was suppose to be 13, but it still holds the point.