Originally posted by TheKingofKINGS!
I agree with Irene here, because even if you don't KNOW what love is, you can still FEEL love. And no matter how old, young, responsible, or mature you might be, you should still be able to recognize REAL love.
I'm not saying anything about that.
But love doesn't always last...and if you're in love, why rush it and get married?
Originally posted by SelphieT
wait, whaaaat? online relationships.....where'd that come into play anyways?I'd only see a reason for an online relationship if a couple was separated for a short period of time. Otherwise, just forget it.
You claimed that you have to see eachother alot to be committed which I said is not true and brought up online relationships for an example.....
Originally posted by TheKingofKINGS!
I agree with Irene here, because even if you don't KNOW what love is, you can still FEEL love. And no matter how old, young, responsible, or mature you might be, you should still be able to recognize REAL love.
Precisely, and if you're willing to give it a try and you're willing to wait to get married after being engaged, then why hold back.
Originally posted by silver_tears
You claimed that you have to see eachother alot to be committed which I said is not true and brought up online relationships for an example.....
And I said that trying to have true committment while not able to be together is a good way to try and destroy your relationship...
Originally posted by silver_tears
You claimed that you have to see eachother alot to be committed which I said is not true and brought up online relationships for an example.....
mmmm, yes, there. I think it totally depends I guess. My dad and his girlfriend kept in contact while he was in Iraq...........but she's still a b*tch.
Originally posted by silver_tears
Precisely, and if you're willing to give it a try and you're willing to wait to get married after being engaged, then why hold back.
Because as beautiful and grand as love is it normally doesn't run your entire life. It's a part of it certainly however it normally doesn't encompass ALL of it.
Whie I do think that fourteen is too young to be engaged, I think the topic is becomming confused.
How high the divorce rates may be doesn't affect how one marriage in particular will end.
No amount of statistics can ever be used to say what will happen in any particular case, only what already has happened in generalities.
For those who have been affected by divorce, Im sorry, but that really doesnt really have anything to do with this particular couple and it can't really be used to say "This happened to my parents, and they were older than you when they got married, so it has to happen to you"
Fourteen may be too young to get married, but I hope it isn't, I hope it works out for the best, and as I don't have any knowledge of the couple, I can't honestly predict what will happen. I advise caution before rushing in, but other than that, I do wish you all the best.
Originally posted by SelphieT
ah, well I'm done talking about marriage. I'm definetly not getting married at 14, or till I'm mature enough to take care of myself. I'm outta here, Rae needs to think about this long and hard.