Inner Beauty..........Outer Beauty...

I'm here again asking anther curious question.

What is more important to you? Is the inner person, the personality, the outlook, or the looks only....

Have I done this before.......lol 😕

Anyway, I ask because people seem to judge on outer surfaces so many times. For me growing up I felt I was a little ugly ducking.
I grew up with that thought until people started telling me this was not true. Yet!!! It did make me shyer, and with that ...did that make me more approachable?....What about the loud mouth beauties?? The boasters.........Are men more attracted to those? OR do they feel they need a connection to someone more real...........not sure if I am putting this down right.......but hey..........we need a new topic...

And Deb is the creative one to do it.............lol

Outer. Although in some porn films, inner.

You're a male ****!!

[edit] a male fungus looking for a rock[edit]

Either's fine.

love everyone and you will change the world

Originally posted by Deano
love everyone and you will change the world

I think its really important in a relationship that you are attracted to how a person looks, as well as who they are on this inside.
Sometimes you'll become attracted to a person who you didn't like before, because you got to know them. The same thing can happen with a person that you thought was very good looking, but once you got to know them you think less of them.
I think in this culture, the media strongly puts on the idea that looking a certain way is very important, and necessary for people to be attracted to you. But thats so superficial, and i think there is so much more to a person...
I think that all guys are probably different in what they are attracted to...

^^ you have some important things to say, IMO, but are cruisin the fence....And YES, the media has to do with shaping our perspective on what is and not beautiful/acceptable, OR NOT.....

In the Earlier ages, the heavy woman or the woman with what was to be thought of as strength was the one sought after..........

Now?? Now?? What is it.

outer is nice for the short term, but if you wnat a relationship...inner has to be there.

First impressions are made mostly on outer beauty, but lasting relationships are build on the inner kind.

Originally posted by Alliance
outer is nice for the short term, but if you wnat a relationship...inner has to be there.

Many sayings do support this view.............

What would make a relationship last???

What would IT BE??

The point is both are important.

Outer beauty is cheapened when Inner Beauty is absent.

Inner Beauty can be inadequate when Outer Beauty is not there...

Think about it...you can think someone is the sweetest, kindest, and warmest person in the world...but if they look like vomit, how are you going to have sex with them >?

Inner Beauty is made up by ugly people...

Originally posted by Grand_Moff_Gav
Inner Beauty is made up by ugly people...

Originally posted by Grand_Moff_Gav
Inner Beauty is made up by ugly people...

Haha son of a ***** beat me to it too.

they made it up to feel better about themselves.

Exactly.

Originally posted by debbiejo
^^ you have some important things to say, IMO, but are cruisin the fence....And YES, the media has to do with shaping our perspective on what is and not beautiful/acceptable, OR NOT.....

In the Earlier ages, the heavy woman or the woman with what was to be thought of as strength was the one sought after..........

Now?? Now?? What is it.

I just don't think its black or white.. both the outer and inner parts of a person matter in relationships IMO.

Inner Beauty is made up by ugly people...

I don't think inner beauty is just "made up"
and i guess everybody has a different definition of "ugly"

Originally posted by debbiejo
I'm here again asking anther curious question.

What is more important to you? Is the inner person, the personality, the outlook, or the looks only....

Have I done this before.......lol 😕

Anyway, I ask because people seem to judge on outer surfaces so many times. For me growing up I felt I was a little ugly ducking.
I grew up with that thought until people started telling me this was not true. Yet!!! It did make me shyer, and with that ...did that make me more approachable?....What about the loud mouth beauties?? The boasters.........Are men more attracted to those? OR do they feel they need a connection to someone more real...........not sure if I am putting this down right.......but hey..........we need a new topic...

And Deb is the creative one to do it.............lol

Definitely the looks. Who wants to have sex with an ugly person? Not me!

Also, once you realise that your hot lady-friend is a possessive, needy, selfish b*tch, you can just kick her to the curb (girlfriend), and then find another sexy...possessive, needy, selfish b*tch.

Stir, and repeat...ad infinitum!

Happy! Happy! Happy!

Originally posted by mysticpeach
I don't think inner beauty is just "made up"
and i guess everybody has a different definition of "ugly"

Your right, that was a bad post, let me rephrase that...

Inner Beauty is a concept ugly people hide behind to make themselves feel better.

Originally posted by Deano
love everyone and you will change the world