Some people always and everywhere try to be beautiful, and in the process a mirror becomes more personal to them than they are to themselves. Even the prettiest face, even the most rugged look, can be destroyed by an ugly personality. The most plain face becomes amazing when the person behind it is filled with confidence, kindness, intelligence and "joie de vivre". If you are good from within, your face reflects a mesmerizing state of goodness. If you are not, you clearly show it through your expressions. True beauty is in a voice, in the words being spoken, in actions and in choices.
To me, physical appearance is subordinate to personality.
If it's just for a sexual/physical relationship, outer is 99.9% important. If it's for a long term relationship then it falls to roughly 65% Outer 35% Inner for me.
Has anyone here not been attracted at all to a persons physical looks and then after getting to know him/her and discovered their 'Inner Beauty' been completely attracted to the person? The only person I can think of was when Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett. Then again, the marriage didn't last long so maybe he was just a sexual powerhouse in the bedroom.