Originally posted by Fallen
everything that i corrected you on is PUBLIC knowledge. anyone who even knew me or john KNEW i was in high school.its ALSO public knowledge that DA was in high school. she posted things about her school dances and graduation. you knew RJ at this time. how do you not know this?
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Originally posted by Syren
It's the fact that he comments without fail on every picture posted by a young female. Providing they're semi attractive, of course, and usually when cleavage is on show 😂
I do the same thing. Granted, I only do it with girls I "know" such as yourself. It would feel weird to do that to a girl I didn't know very well. I GUESS that this is a point that I must concede because it's rather direct.
I just see it as a dude whistling at girls: I don't see it as perving out. The fact that I see worse from dudes is probably why I consider John "normal".
Originally posted by Syren
His comments are often lascivious and it's cringe-worthy when you know how old he is and how old they are. It just paints a picture of a hunter and its prey. To me, at least.
Oh, okay. I understand now. Well, when a lady posts a picture of herself on the internet, dressed provocatively or with chesticles exposed, the vast majority of them are aware that it is going to make men "gawk, hoot, and holler". Got that phrase from my mom. 😊
Originally posted by Syren
The Marius/Sarah situation is different. It was kept pretty private as far as I can remember. There was no perverse public flirting. It was quite modest. And the ****ed up thing is, the age difference would have been questionable to someone who didn't know them. They're not polite about it any more though, they're downright disgusting at times nahuh
Honestly, Marius is right on the border of what I would consider "acceptable". I don't think any less of him but he was pushing the limit at what I would be okay with. It really depends on how socially AND physically mature the girl is (or, if the ages are reversed, boy).
Originally posted by Syren
I prefer the American spelling, so will use that in future 😄
You'll find that we Yanks have quite a bit to offer in our ignorant language ways. flirt
Originally posted by Fallen
everything that i corrected you on is PUBLIC knowledge.
Suuuuuure. I came to KMC a generation after your fling began/ended. I didn't post, regularly until 2007. I didn't regularly venture into the OTF until around 2008. No one just randomly tells me about this stuff. Almost no one cares. I also don't really care to go back through the old school KMC pages to read that. So, no, it's not "public" to people who came around after your relationship ended.
Originally posted by Fallen
anyone who even knew me or john KNEW i was in high school.
That's obviously not true. Most of the people that frequently talk to John...MikeyDude, TheOneFreeMan, me...we have NO idea about this past life because....get this.....John doesn't talk about it.
I could start a poll in the OTF asking the members to mark whether they knew RJ had a relationship with Fallen on KMC. I am quite sure that most of them were not aware. Most of the old timers that WOULD know do not come here very often or were banned.
Originally posted by Fallen
its ALSO public knowledge that DA was in high school. she posted things about her school dances and graduation. you knew RJ at this time. how do you not know this?
I did not know John at this time. It was after the relationship began and was well on it's way before John and I started conversing outside of KMC. I also did not post very often or know very many people in the OTF. For someone who randomly pops in to KMC to insult John to set the record straight about "facts" surrounding him, you don't know him very well, do you?
You know what I knew about John, at the time? He had a fling with Kayakat because I went directly to Scythe about it. That's it. Oh, and I knew he liked movies and Star Wars a lot. Does that settle things?
What other "PUBLIC" knowledge am I supposed to know?
Also...is there someone else there giving you advice on what to say? Because you're posting a bit out of character. You usually are cool calm and collected while posting in a veiled/mysterious manner. Right now, you're being so very direct.