How do you define yourself?

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Before Daniel and I broke up I defined myself by him. Now I define myself by.....nothing, basically. Depression, lol.

Originally posted by Stlawbellies
That's really sad.
You defined yourself through a relationship? You need to like read more or at least like watch t.v. shows and like define yourself by focusing on a character and like imitating that person in real life situation.
This like woman defined herself through the reality show "Lost". It was like "Oh, guess what happened on Lost... I'm going to do a "Lost" theme for my wedding." blah blah blah.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
That's not what I meant. I didn't go home after school everyday and like...sit on my bed and stare at a picture of him. I still got out and did things, I still watched TV, listened to music, read, etc. I just defined myself through him because I loved him that much...I still love him that much.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
That's not what I meant. I didn't go home after school everyday and like...sit on my bed and stare at a picture of him. I still got out and did things, I still watched TV, listened to music, read, etc. I just defined myself through him because I loved him that much...I still love him that much.

Ah, the joy and pain of teenage love and heartbreak... Don't worry about it, you're very young, in no time you will no longer feel any pain and wonder why in the hell you ever cared about that dude. I'll leave you with some Elton John (who's gay) lyrics.

Daniel is travelling tonight on a plane
I can see the red tail lights heading for Spain
Oh and I can see Daniel waving goodbye
God it looks like Daniel, must be the clouds in my eyes

They say Spain is pretty though I've never been
Well Daniel says it's the best place that he's ever seen
Oh and he should know, he's been there enough
Lord I miss Daniel, oh I miss him so much

Daniel my brother you are older than me
Do you still feel the pain of the scars that won't heal
Your eyes have died but you see more than I
Daniel you're a star in the face of the sky

Daniel is travelling tonight on a plane
I can see the red tail lights heading for Spain
Oh and I can see Daniel waving goodbye
God it looks like Daniel, must be the clouds in my eyes
Oh God it looks like Daniel, must be the clouds in my eyes

Originally posted by nerf warrior
I define myself by my skill on the battlefield. When I am standing against an army of a few hundred and my army is behind me out of my line of sight and I charge into battle leading my army like an english mastiff being walked by a 100 lb woman, and I wade through the enemy swinging my sword with a rythem that must have come from the gods dodging shot after shot, dealing death with every step, not stopping until an arrow strikes me dead because no melee weapon can touch me, that's how and when I define myself. The only thing purer then battle is the scent of your women during the victory celebration that night, and having the hunger and ability to take her then and there, in front of many a drunken unlooker.

It's beyond explanation.

LOL... Ingenius response... At least you're good for a laugh.

Originally posted by Stlawbellies
That's not love, that's identity crisis.

Originally posted by Robtard
Ah, the joy and pain of teenage love and heartbreak... Don't worry about it, you're very young, in no time you will no longer feel any pain and wonder why in the hell you ever cared about that dude. I'll leave you with some Elton John (who's gay) lyrics.

Daniel is travelling tonight on a plane
I can see the red tail lights heading for Spain
Oh and I can see Daniel waving goodbye
God it looks like Daniel, must be the clouds in my eyes

They say Spain is pretty though I've never been
Well Daniel says it's the best place that he's ever seen
Oh and he should know, he's been there enough
Lord I miss Daniel, oh I miss him so much

Daniel my brother you are older than me
Do you still feel the pain of the scars that won't heal
Your eyes have died but you see more than I
Daniel you're a star in the face of the sky

Daniel is travelling tonight on a plane
I can see the red tail lights heading for Spain
Oh and I can see Daniel waving goodbye
God it looks like Daniel, must be the clouds in my eyes
Oh God it looks like Daniel, must be the clouds in my eyes

Originally posted by Kelly_LS

Haha every time I heard that song I was reminded of him...and still am. But no, Robtard my dear, I'm afraid getting over him isn't an easy thing and to make it worse I have two courses with him which makes it worse because I have to look at him. I love him more than anyone could ever love someone but it was all just unfortunate and I can't go back in time. [/B]

Take it from somebody older than yourself and wiser solely for the reason that I have gone through what you feel (not for a dude though). In a short time, you will no longer care and wonder why you cared so much for that person

Originally posted by Robtard
Take it from somebody older than yourself and wiser solely for the reason that I have gone through what you feel (not for a dude though). In a short time, you will no longer care and wonder why you cared so much for that person

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
How so, though????

You will simply move on with your life.

Originally posted by Robtard
You will simply move on with your life.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I can't do that so easily when I have to see him and know that he and I are no longer together.

Trust me, as the days pass, it will get easier. Someone new will spark your interest, that will help it move along even faster.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I can't do that so easily when I have to see him and know that he and I are no longer together.

Just remember: He's an assh0le.

Originally posted by Robtard
Trust me, as the days pass, it will get easier. Someone new will spark your interest, that will help it move along even faster.

Defination of David:

Perfect in every f-ing way

How do i define myself......

Angry , yup that just about covers it.....

I define myself by drawing around my outline with a day-glo marker. Makes me feel good, yo.

Originally posted by paybacksare
As I get "older" I definitely notice changes in how I define myself.

Do you define yourself by your education, your job, your aspirations? Or by your family, your friends, your physical environment? Or perhaps by your inner thoughts and dreams; your deepest hopes and alternately, your deepest fears?

When someone asks you "who are you?" how do you find yourself answering?

I try not to identify myself with anything. Life and it's images of importance are all mental projections. I try to meditate and to merge myself with the unity and contiuity of the universe. I see myself as a human being who needs to be liberated from the illusions of suffering.

Originally posted by paybacksare
As I get "older" I definitely notice changes in how I define myself.

Do you define yourself by your education, your job, your aspirations? Or by your family, your friends, your physical environment? Or perhaps by your inner thoughts and dreams; your deepest hopes and alternately, your deepest fears?

When someone asks you "who are you?" how do you find yourself answering?

Car enthusiast/expert.

Originally posted by allofyousuckkk
Defination of David:

Perfect in every f-ing way

Well IMO people shouldn't identify themselves with people OR things, you'll only get let down every single time.......All things are in constant change....