Originally posted by debbiejo
Well IMO people shouldn't identify themselves with people OR things, you'll only get let down every single time.......All things are in constant change....
It's so easy for me to say don't feel that way, but in honest truth I think we all have felt the same way at one time or another......My best advise is to get involved with many things to get your mind off it, and things will slowly change and this feeling will become dimmer.......I understand that this is the worst feeling in the world......But it's NOT the end of YOUR world.....It's your world and you can mold it anyway you chose... 🙂
First of all put his picture and all things he gave you away. The phrase "Out of sight, out of mind" does help.
Originally posted by debbiejo
It's so easy for me to say don't feel that way, but in honest truth I think we all have felt the same way at one time or another......My best advise is to get involved with many things to get your mind off it, and things will slowly change and this feeling will become dimmer.......I understand that this is the worst feeling in the world......But it's NOT the end of YOUR world.....It's your world and you can mold it anyway you chose... 🙂First of all put his picture and all things he gave you away. The phrase "Out of sight, out of mind" does help.
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Yeps! I put his pictures, stuffed animals, bracelets, promise ring, etc. UNDER my bed to stay.
Dude, I would NOT keep that stuff under my bed. I'd throw it away or burn it. I wouldnt want any kind of memories like that lying around. I mean what if one day your cleaning up and you forget that stuff is there and you come across it?
Originally posted by BlackSunshine
Dude, I would NOT keep that stuff under my bed. I'd throw it away or burn it. I wouldnt want any kind of memories like that lying around. I mean what if one day your cleaning up and you forget that stuff is there and you come across it?
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
True. 😬 Gosh that's a hard and tough decision to make though.
yeah it is..but do you want that stuff sitting under your bed all the time? I mean you know where it is and you know whats there. I mean one day you just might get the urge to look at all that stuff again and remember everything. Then you'll be sad again.
Originally posted by BlackSunshine
yeah it is..but do you want that stuff sitting under your bed all the time? I mean you know where it is and you know whats there. I mean one day you just might get the urge to look at all that stuff again and remember everything. Then you'll be sad again.
Originally posted by Robtard
Keep whatever you can sell on Ebay and burn the rest; time to move on.