My 4 Yr Son Gets Bullied

Started by Nerdanel5 pages

My 4 Yr Son Gets Bullied

He is 4 and he go to an all boy school he comes home all timid and shaky.. He wets the bed has night terrors and when he goes to school the next day he dont talk to me.

I'm sure he i getting picked on by 8 year olds.. but he just says he falls over

So what can i do??

oh and if your going to be a wise arse dont bother replying to this thread

8 yr olds picking on a 4 yr old? Wtf?

Re: My 4 Yr Son Gets Bullied

Originally posted by Nerdanel
He is 4 and he go to an all boy school he comes home all timid and shaky.. He wets the bed has night terrors and when he goes to school the next day he dont talk to me.

I'm sure he i getting picked on by 8 year olds.. but he just says he falls over

So what can i do??

oh and if your going to be a wise arse dont bother replying to this thread

Mu sister used to be bullied by this massive kid. My parents spoke to his parents. My parents think that his father beats his mother, and that's why he's so violent. So my advice is speak to his parents.

im sure they are 8.. I see the way he is when he walks past them.

Tell him to punch them in the face and kick them in the nuts. When those eight year old's moms come complaining . . . claim self defense.

Originally posted by Nerdanel
im sure they are 8.. I see the way he is when he walks past them.

Threaten them with bodily harm ✅

But seriously, I dont know what you would do with a 4 yr old...they're not really old enough to stick up for themselves..😕

Originally posted by Council#13
Mu sister used to be bullied by this massive kid. My parents spoke to his parents. My parents think that his father beats his mother, and that's why he's so violent. So my advice is speak to his parents.

i did that.. but they said there sweet little angels wouldnt hurt a fly..

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Tell him to punch them in the face and kick them in the nuts. When those eight year old's moms come complaining . . . claim self defense.

ive tried.. but he doesnt listen

The word molestation comes to mind. leftright

Originally posted by Nerdanel
i did that.. but they said there sweet little angels wouldnt hurt a fly..

Ha, $50 says in 8 years they'll be smoking pot at lunch during school....those types of ignorant parents bring up the worst kids...

Originally posted by Nerdanel
i did that.. but they said there sweet little angels wouldnt hurt a fly..

ive tried.. but he doesnt listen

Did you ever see Bad Santa with Billy Bob Thorton? Sometimes there comes a time where it is time for adults to beat up little kids. I believe this is one of those times. But you should disguise yourself! Beat them up on Halloween!! 😱

I'd send him to a new school... or to talk the someone on the school staff on what's going on.

Re: My 4 Yr Son Gets Bullied

Originally posted by Nerdanel
He is 4 and he go to an all boy school he comes home all timid and shaky.. He wets the bed has night terrors and when he goes to school the next day he dont talk to me.

I'm sure he i getting picked on by 8 year olds.. but he just says he falls over

So what can i do??

oh and if your going to be a wise arse dont bother replying to this thread

I was bullied alot until I learned alot of self defense. But honestly that's only going to go so far with a four year old vs multiple 8 year olds. At this age his image is very important so he'll need someone to make him feel confident, that part falls on you. He should learn how to defend himself, but only if it's necessary.

Ultimately when I left my bad neighborhood I felt little need to defend myself as much, being picked on is a part of life though. You just have to overcome it.

well unless the teachers are willing to help you pretty much cant do nothing.
Unless you wanna transfer schools for him but things might not be different there.
all you can really do is support and comfort him. Bullying is hard to avoid.
Kids are afraid to tell adults cause they are afraid it may get worse.

Originally posted by Mišt
Ha, $50 says in 8 years they'll be smoking pot at lunch during school....those types of ignorant parents bring up the worst kids...

aye true that

My suggestion is have a few words with his teacher and ask him/ her to look out for your little guy.

No no no, forget all that. Give him a can of mace!

Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Did you ever see Bad Santa with Billy Bob Thorton? Sometimes there comes a time where it is time for adults to beat up little kids. I believe this is one of those times. But you should disguise yourself! Beat them up on Halloween!! 😱

Thats perfect😱 Then take their candy and run off droolio

Or hire private assassins to take their lunch money 😖hifty:

Originally posted by Nerdanel
i did that.. but they said there sweet little angels wouldnt hurt a fly..

ive tried.. but he doesnt listen


all parents think their kids are sweet little angels the only way to prove it to them is catch it on video.

Tell the teacher ermm

Tell him that when they go to pick on him that he should punch the biggest kid in the face right in front off all his friends. This will instill fear into the rest of them. Then tell him to spit on the kid while he's down, and say, "The next time I see you, I'm going to kill you."

lol..clearly you dont know my son..his teachers have said unless he speaks up there is nothing they can do..