Hi hun,
Go and see the head-teacher. Bullshit they can't do anything unless he speaks up. My oldest was bullied and I called the school and it was dealt with straight away.
Changing schools is an option but don't do it unless it's a last resort. You will unfortunatley find bullies everywhere. I think getting him into some self defence type sport is a good idea. You are limited though due to his age.
Re: My 4 Yr Son Gets Bullied
Originally posted by NerdanelHonestly, i know parents would just wanna solve the problems themselves. But i dont like it when my father steps into me and hte bully and talks to him, it makes me feel embarrassed but since ur child is only 4. demand your son to tell you. if he wont, just talk to the bullies yourself..
He is 4 and he go to an all boy school he comes home all timid and shaky.. He wets the bed has night terrors and when he goes to school the next day he dont talk to me.I'm sure he i getting picked on by 8 year olds.. but he just says he falls over
So what can i do??
oh and if your going to be a wise arse dont bother replying to this thread
Originally posted by Miss Kinky
Hi hun,Go and see the head-teacher. Bullshit they can't do anything unless he speaks up. My oldest was bullied and I called the school and it was dealt with straight away.
Changing schools is an option but don't do it unless it's a last resort. You will unfortunatley find bullies everywhere. I think getting him into some self defence type sport is a good idea. You are limited though due to his age.
I recomend some contemparay Jui jits su or a traditional Japanese art i.e. GoJu Ryu, ( what i do), he'l want something that'll train him on some ground fighting too cause often fights result in the oponents becoming preverbial dust devils with all there rolling around.
Originally posted by Nerdanelahhh! I hope he doesn't grow to be a fanboy... 🙁
but hi fav xmn i wolvi
That's still cool though. 🙂 I'm watching the Goofy Movie right now...
Originally posted by ADarksideJediThey live a bit far away. 🙁
Good that is a good idea.jm
Originally posted by SlayYou have a sick mind, you know that? 😠
I was talking about the ''partner'' thing actually.
Originally posted by Ultraman BaltanShredder and Leonardo kick ass! Venom is better than Goblin though...
Bah! Shredder and Green Goblin battle them to the death!
Originally posted by SlayMore for confidence and assertiveness at his age. A four year old is still developing bones and doesn't need to do serious fighting... of course that never stopped me from tearing people apart.
Do you really think that when the kid is surrounded by let's say 3 kids twice his age, knowing a self defence sport will really help him?
I did Jiu Jitsu but I still had my ass kicked when I was attacked by 3 guys at once.Always remember, Bruce Lee movies are fiction.
Originally posted by Slay🙄 If you want a picture just ask. 🙂
By showing them pictures of you posing?
Meh I had problems with bullies until about high school when I became a totally different person and just overall respected for being different. I could sharpen my nails and people would think it was cool. It's being a leader I guess. *shrugs*
Originally posted by Nerdanel
lol..clearly you dont know my son..his teachers have said unless he speaks up there is nothing they can do..
1. Encourage him to speak up.
2. Go to the principal.
3. Do #1 and #2 everytime there is an incident. Be a respectful pest.
4. Document each incident; document everytime you've gone to the school for help; document the responses of the teachers/principal. Go above the principal's head, if you have to. Document. Let everyone you speak to see you are taking notes and keeping a log.
5. Talk to the bullies' parents. Document. Let them see you are keeping a record, too.
If nothing improves...
1. Go to the police with your documented incidents. Document their reponse.
2. Consider retaining a lawyer with your documented record and suing the local board of education.
3. Go to the local paper.
This is a lot of work, I know, but you will be sending a message loud and clear that others will benefit from as well. Plus, you will be modeling for your son (the best way kids learn) how to stand up for your rights. Good luck.
i just contacted this club..Galligan's Tang Soo Do he will become a mini Dragons..
The emphasis in this class is on teaching basic skills and positive reinforcement.
These skills include:
Balance and Coordination
Self Confidence
Self Esteem
Following Instructions
Self Discipline
Respect for others and themselves
Energy Release
Learn Healthy Habits
Goal Setting
Train hard and have Fun
Originally posted by Slay
Do you really think that when the kid is surrounded by let's say 3 kids twice his age, knowing a self defence sport will really help him?
I did Jiu Jitsu but I still had my ass kicked when I was attacked by 3 guys at once.Always remember, Bruce Lee movies are fiction.
Originally posted by Nerdanel
i just contacted this club..Galligan's Tang Soo Do he will become a mini Dragons..The emphasis in this class is on teaching basic skills and positive reinforcement.
These skills include:
Balance and Coordination
Self Confidence
Self Esteem
Following Instructions
Self Discipline
Respect for others and themselves
Energy Release
Learn Healthy Habits
Goal Setting
Train hard and have Fun
Note on fancy moves: i have been in many a full contact tournament were iv'e had someone try and do one of those " mega McFly kicks" on me, they either miss or ar the easyist thing in the world to anticipate, block or dodge.
Also the focus of the club seems to be good and well.
Originally posted by NerdanelThat's good. 🙂
i just contacted this club..Galligan's Tang Soo Do he will become a mini Dragons..The emphasis in this class is on teaching basic skills and positive reinforcement.
These skills include:
Balance and Coordination
Self Confidence
Self Esteem
Following Instructions
Self Discipline
Respect for others and themselves
Energy Release
Learn Healthy Habits
Goal Setting
Train hard and have Fun
Originally posted by Tha C-Master
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFrDFfgtUl4😆