Originally posted by inimalist
yes, my opinion is that the government has no right to regulate against incest so long as it is consensual and between adultsadditionally, were the government to start regulating against relationships that cause psychological damage, potentially any relationship would be illegal. The last major relationship I had still causes me issues given how it ended.
further, the idea of the government regulating against disabled children being born strikes me as incredibly problematic
It isn't about government regulating against anyone being born. It's about government stopping children from being placed in a position where they are at risk of being born with disabilities. No one is saying disabled people shouldn't be born. Not me. Not you. Not the government.
Originally posted by inimalist
EDIT: I'd still like your thoughts on the fact that an incentuous couple who use contraceptives have a much lower risk of having a disabled child than do two strangers who do not. Would you then suggest not using condoms or other forms of birth control should be illegal?
No. Let's say that it is the case that incestuous people who use protection have a lower chance of having disabled children than those who don't use it. What does this mean? That incestuous couples should be allowed to have sex as long as they use protection? That doesn't seem to sink well with your stance on incest at all.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
That doesn't really refute the comparison. Unborn babies can't really consent to anything. I would value the choices and wills of the living parents above that of their unborn, hypothetical offspring in any case.
So if something can't consent or is unable to consent to something we can do whatever we want to it? And that hypothetical word doesn't really fit here. We are talking about very real risk.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
Wow it's like you didn't even read what I wrote.I don't think there should be a law lol. My whole argument is that there is no good reason to make a law against incest.
Then why have you been using the argument that incestuous couples can use birth control to avoid getting pregnant? That seems to suggest that you accept that incestuous people having children is a problem, but that it can be solved by using preventative measures.
So do you think it is fully acceptable for incestuous couples to not only avoid using protection, but actively try to have children themselves, knowing that there is a better chance than not that their children will be born with birth defects?
Originally posted by Omega Vision
Russian Roulette has a 1/6 chance of splattering someone's brains. Maybe higher depending on the number of bullets. Do not even try to force this comparison.
It doesn't need to be forced. It works just fine the way it is. You have two different acts. Each one has the possibility of causing harm. Your argument was that there is no guarantee that a child will be born with disabilities. And that the act is alright, simply because it might not cause any harm. Which is a flawed line of reasoning. Because we can adapt that same reasoning to my example.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
Nope.
No you're not sure? Or no incest isn't illegal? Because I know for a fact that incest is, in fact, illegal. Though not everywhere.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
I'm not relating it, and as I said when I first broached the subject I'm not saying that this is your view either. What I'm saying is that you're essentially making an argument for eugenics which had its roots in racism as well as a large number of backward "sciences" and philosophies. Your basic argument is that breeding should be regulated by law. This is a dangerous path to go down.
I don't think so. Again, if breeding with a certain person will harm that person or another person I see no reason to allow it. in fact, I think it is our moral obligation to stop it. Which is why sex with children as well as animals is illegal. Because it is damaging to people.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
You've refuted it? Where? This is news to me. Here I thought you were just flailing about and trying to move the goal post.Also I'll return to my poverty example which you failed to adequately address: should we also keep poor people from breeding to keep them from forcing their poverty unnecessarily on potential children?
I've already responded to the poverty example and explain the difference between the two.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
I have been doing that the entire time. You're just flailing.I want to know why you would say that they have a right to be born if you're going to advocate legislation specifically aimed at ensuring they're less likely to be born?
You talk about malformed children as "them" as if they are a specific group of people that are waiting to be born. Which isn't true. Look at sex between underage individuals. technically they can get pregnant. So by restricting someone from having sex and impregnating an underage girl, would you say that all the "children born from underage girls" aren't getting a chance to live? Of course not. That's just ridiculous.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
I understand that you'd prefer that people didn't have to suffer from disabilities, I share that concern. But at the same time I don't think the solution is to nip it in the bud by constraining the freedom of real, living people for the sake of double hypotheticals (the double part being that they might be born or might not be and if so they might or might not be malformed)
You have to be more clear on your stance here. You seem to be suggesting that incestuous couples should be allowed to have children if they so wanted. Which means the first part of your "hypothetical", namely the chance that they might or might not be born, doesn't even work. If you have an incestuous couple who wants to have children, they are obviously going to try until they get it right. And the odds are so stacked in favor of children being born with deformities, that the second part of your hypothetical is almost not even worth mentioning.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
What's wrong about the act? The act it seems is only wrong because of consequences. My entire issue is that the act of putting your penis in your sister's vagina isn't immoral in of itself.
But the act itself is potentially inflicting harm on other people. By putting your penis into your sisters vagina you are potentially causing a child to be born with physical deformities.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
Okay......deformed people being born=not wrong
...people creating deformed people=...not wrong?
...people increasing the risk of creating deformed people=WRONG
...risk increasing=WRONG because...?
What do you mean? How can you honestly see nothing wrong with increasing the risk that your child will be born physically deformed?
Originally posted by Omega Vision
I'm insisting that there are plenty of forms of incest that carry next to no risk of conception. I want you to debate me on why incest is immoral independent of the issue of conception. You want to debate me on why incest should be illegal. I have no interest in the latter argument and you seem to have no interest in the former. But at the very least I'm humoring you.
Independent of the issue of conception? The issue of conception is the problem. Are you saying "I want to debate what problems you have with it outside of the problems you have with it?"
As for it being illegal or immoral. My reasoning behind thinking it is immoral are the same as my reasons behind thinking it should be illegal.
Unless you are talking about sexual activity that has no chance to produce children, in which case I would still consider it immoral on the grounds that I think there is possibility for psychological damage being done. Which is a point that has been mostly ignored in this debate.
Originally posted by Omega Vision
Nope, I'm stating that if we were to agree that increasing the risk of having deformed children should be something legally regulated (spoiler alert: I don't agree) then only that case where the parents are clearly not doing anything to minimize the risk would be at all reasonable to prohibit. It's the difference between drunk driving and just driving. One is illegal for good reason, the other is legal.
In that case, we should first focus on where or not risking deformities on your children should be something that is allowed. It's pretty clear why I think it should not. After all, we already regulate sexual activity if there is potential harm to those involved. I don't see this as being much different.