Why do people cheat?

Started by BobbyD7 pages

I've cheated. ...because I can. If it makes me weak, then I suppose I am weak when it comes to temptations of the flesh.

However, I do not condone cheating when you're married. To me it is one of the most serious sins one can commit. You're not just making a promise to your better half, but the Man Upstairs also.

Originally posted by lord xyz
This thread is so sexist.

Indeed. Like women don't cheat as well? Who they **** are they kidding?

Originally posted by BobbyD
I've cheated. ...because I can. If it makes me weak, then I suppose I am weak when it comes to temptations of the flesh.

However, I do not condone cheating when you're married. To me it is one of the most serious sins one can commit. You're not just making a promise to your better half, but the Man Upstairs also.

whats the difference? you seem to be of the mindset that its ok if you're not married, but you're still lying and also putting your girlfriend at risk of VD.

The answer is pretty simple, because something is missing be it form sex, romance, adventure or what ever or from the popular “they were too drunk”. This also applies to woman as well.

Originally posted by Thorin
I´m here because I see how all men come here to say all those lies about women just to feel less quilty of something they all do naturally.
And,well, someone has to says something, it is completely unfair that lie XDD

Accept the reality, you , men, are guilty, dont deny this, dont blame innocents (Poor women you cheat, specially those pregnant wives, or the sick ones) for what you do for lust.
Something very different from LOVE.

This is very shameful and dirty.
Shame on you men, really, for blaming women.

It explain perfectly why men cheat. They need more women to satisfy lust.
And so what Quieto Mota said, at least that´s the realistic explanation of why all men cheat, and he accept it.

So dont blame the innocents for what you do, that is more than shameful.

Sad, but its an overwhealming reality.

The phrase "I'm a close-minded fundamentalist, here's proof." comes to mind.

Originally posted by BobbyD
I've cheated. ...because I can. If it makes me weak, then I suppose I am weak when it comes to temptations of the flesh.

However, I do not condone cheating when you're married. To me it is one of the most serious sins one can commit. You're not just making a promise to your better half, but the Man Upstairs also.

It doesn’t make you weak because you are not trying to resist it, it only makes you an A$$, a liar and not trust worthy. No who will want to marry you knowing that you have cheated on every girlfriend that you have.

Originally posted by PVS
whats the difference? you seem to be of the mindset that its ok if you're not married, but you're still lying and also putting your girlfriend at risk of VD.

Yes, while there is a risk (which I'm not arguing), if you're careful and take precautions, then you'll never have to worry.

Originally posted by ThePittman
“they were too drunk”.

That one is hands down my favorite and the most laughable when used.

Yes, while there is a risk (which I'm not arguing), if you're careful and take precautions, then you'll never have to worry.

Oh really, what precautions are you taking about and what would you have to worry about?

Originally posted by Soleran
That one is hands down my favorite and the most laughable when used.

what's even worse is that people believe them

Originally posted by BobbyD
Yes, while there is a risk (which I'm not arguing), if you're careful and take precautions, then you'll never have to worry.

thats bullshit. what, you think a condom is 100% effective? crabs, herpese, lots of vd can be passed while using a condom. you're significantly reducing your chances of getting aids and getting a girl pregnant, but thats about it.

thats what gets my goat about 'birth control awareness' is while good in intention, it seems to convince people that a condom is bullet proof

Originally posted by BobbyD
Yes, while there is a risk (which I'm not arguing), if you're careful and take precautions, then you'll never have to worry.
You don’t understand VD or STD’s then at all.

Originally posted by ThePittman
It doesn’t make you weak because you are not trying to resist it, it only makes you an A$$, a liar and not trust worthy. No who will want to marry you knowing that you have cheated on every girlfriend that you have.

Wow..talk about the crucifixion that I'm getting. Good Lord! I have yet to pick up my stone and hurl it at you.

Yes, I am a sinner. Am I proud of it? Hell no. What business is it of yours? You've never lied? Go **** yourself, loser.

Get a f'n grip. You're a worse person than I. How's that for some self rightousness?

Originally posted by BobbyD
Get a f'n grip. You're a worse person than I. How's that for some self rightousness?

self rightousness doesnt spread genital herpese to the people you lie to.

there is nothing wrong with being a player, as long as its clear that you are.

however when you're a wolf in sheeps clothing, and convince someone that you're
being monogomous while screwing around behind her back, that makes you a lying whore.

Originally posted by PVS
thats bullshit. what, you think a condom is 100% effective? crabs, herpese, lots of vd can be passed while using a condom. you're significantly reducing your chances of getting aids and getting a girl pregnant, but thats about it.

thats what gets my goat about 'birth control awareness' is while good in intention, it seems to convince people that a condom is bullet proof

Answer me this? While you are monagomous, what if your girlfriend is cheating on you? Like you can't get an STD because you're being faithful. Cast the stone, when you give me answer for this, oh bright one. Good God.

Originally posted by Röland
what's even worse is that people believe them
Not really, is it used more than it should, yes but with drinking or any drugs it lowers your inhabitations and has a mental effect on you. Some will use this excuse when they have a little buzz and its BS because they are still aware of their actions but get to the point of blitzed and most actions can be thrown out the window.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Wow..talk about the crucifixion that I'm getting. Good Lord! I have yet to pick up my stone and hurl it at you.

Yes, I am a sinner. Am I proud of it? Hell no. What business is it of yours? You've never lied? Go **** yourself, loser.

Get a f'n grip. You're a worse person than I. How's that for some self rightousness?

Lol you call it Crucifixion when someone tells you how it is, go stick your head in the sand🙂

You make mistakes because you choose to make mistakes and more importantly I don't even care nor do I think others here really care. It's that fact you think if you wear a condemn you have protected other people from your "mistakes," asinine.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Answer me this? While you are monagomous, what if your girlfriend is cheating on you? Like you can't get an STD because you're being faithful. Cast the stone, when you give me answer for this, oh bright one. Good God.

if my girlfriend cheated on me and as a result i got an std that would make her a lowlife lying whore. im not sure the point you're trying to illustrate, unless you just like shooting yourself in the foot.

Good Lord, this thread has turned into persecution about cheating and an STD education class, as opposed to sticking to the thread. 🙄

Originally posted by PVS
if my girlfriend cheated on me and as a result i got an std that would make her a lowlife lying whore. im not sure the point you're trying to illustrate, unless you just like shooting yourself in the foot.

Again, one person's selfish act of cheating on you, does not make her necessarily a bad person. To you, she was a whore. To the next man, she could be a blessing. How many women do you think today cheated on their boyfriends, who are now faithful, excellent spouses? Unbelievable, I tell you. A mere child compared to me.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Good Lord, this thread has turned into persecution about cheating and an STD education class, as opposed to sticking to the thread. 🙄

Well it was pretty obvious you needed that quick euducation on STD's.

As far as the thread goes I'll say you're a classic example of the excuses of why people cheat and then say they use "protection" so really its not as bad.

Sound fair? Continue on then.