Why do people cheat? · General Discussion Forum

ThePittman "Pitt Happens"

Originally posted by BobbyD
Wow..talk about the crucifixion that I'm getting. Good Lord! I have yet to pick up my stone and hurl it at you.
Yes, I am a sinner. Am I proud of it? Hell no. What business is it of yours? You've never lied? Go **** yourself, loser.
Get a f'n grip. You're a worse person than I. How's that for some self rightousness?

You are the one that posted saying that it is OK to cheat on your GF but it is wrong to do this to a wife, how hypocritical is that. Don’t pretend that I’m attacking you, I’m just stating the facts, do you tell every girl that you will that you will be cheating on them, if no then you are a liar. Do you tell the girl that you are with that this is one girl relationship, if no then you are not trustworthy and I don’t think any female here would disagree with the statement that it just makes you and A$$ and that they wouldn’t want a relationship with you.

Also have I lied before, yes, have I ever cheated on my wife or any GF, no.

WrathfulDwarf THE LOOSE CANNON

Re: Why do men cheat

Originally posted by heru
What causes a man to cheat on his wife and or his girl

To quote Al Bundy:

"Other Women"

PVS Restricted

Originally posted by BobbyD
Good Lord, this thread has turned into persecution about cheating and an STD education class, as opposed to sticking to the thread. 🙄

nopity you said something completely ridiculous (i use protection so cheating is fine) and people counter that point..

...then you cry and nail yourself to the cross. baby

maybe you should keep your dishonest and idiotic ways to yourself if you so fear persecution....perhaps?

Originally posted by BobbyD
Again, one person's selfish act of cheating on you, does not make her necessarily a bad person. To you, she was a whore. To the next man, she could be a blessing. How many women do you think today cheated on their boyfriends, who are now faithful, excellent spouses? Unbelievable, I tell you. A mere child compared to me.

well, if i ever get cheated on, ill give the whore your phone number and you can have your 'blessing' while i find someone honest as opposed to a stupid shallow idiot. then you both can give eachother VD and sneak behind eachother's backs and give everyone else VD, all the while feeling mature for doing it.

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by Soleran
Lol you call it Crucifixion when someone tells you how it is, go stick your head in the sand🙂
You make mistakes because you choose to make mistakes and more importantly I don't even care nor do I think others here really care. It's that fact you think if you wear a condemn you have protected other people from your "mistakes," asinine.

It is not a mistake because I don't have an STD? What is it that you people are not getting? I cheat because I like sex. If you have a problem with that, it is your problem. Do I have some concerns that I should worry about? Yes. But, that's not what the topic is about.

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by PVS
[B maybe you should keep your dishonest and idiotic ways to yourself if you so fear persecution....perhaps?
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Perhaps.

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by ThePittman
Have I ever cheated on my wife or any GF, no.

Then you are a stronger man than I.

Soleran Fast As Time

Originally posted by BobbyD
It is not a mistake because I don't have an STD? What is it that you people are not getting? I cheat because I like sex. If you have a problem with that, it is your problem. Do I have some concerns that I should worry about? Yes. But, that's not what the topic is about.

And this post sums it up nicely, you cheat because you like sex. There we go however the next question would be something like:

Why are you in a relationship to begin with and does your partner know about this? (Obviously if they know then you're not cheating so an answer to the first part of the question should suffice.)

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by Soleran
And this post sums it up nicely, you cheat because you like sex.

I've admitted this like 8 posts ago.

Originally posted by Soleran
Why are you in a relationship to begin with and does your partner know about this? (Obviously if they know then you're not cheating so an answer to the first part of the question should suffice.)

...sewing my oats before my time is finished. I suppose there could be some underlying issues, but that remains to be seen.

PVS Restricted

Originally posted by BobbyD
...sewing my oats before my time is finished. I suppose there could be some underlying issues, but that remains to be seen.

then dump your girlfriend and have a ball. have a 20 girl orgy. nobody is (i believe) condemning promiscuity, but rather condemning cheating, lying, and putting innocent people at risk because you just feel the need to act like a gentleman in front of the person who trusts you the most and then when she's not looking, stick it to anything with two legs and a hole. thats all.

like i said, nothing wrong with being a player as long as your straight forward about it

ThePittman "Pitt Happens"

Originally posted by BobbyD
It is not a mistake because I don't have an STD? What is it that you people are not getting? I cheat because I like sex. If you have a problem with that, it is your problem. Do I have some concerns that I should worry about? Yes. But, that's not what the topic is about.

There is nothing wrong with liking sex, hell I love sex and I have had many partners in my old days but what is wrong is that you are cheating, if you don’t want a relationship then let them know that or make it an understanding to the person that you are with that it is not exclusive. If they are cool with it then fine and dandy but if they are not don’t lead them on because not only is it disrespectful to them but endangers them as well.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Then you are a stronger man than I.

Never said I was stronger, if you remember I said that you were not weak because you are not trying to resist but that you are being disrespectful toward your GF.

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by PVS
then dump your girlfriend and have a ball. have a 20 girl orgy. nobody is (i believe) condemning promiscuity, but rather condemning cheating, lying, and putting innocent people at risk because you just feel the need to act like a gentleman in front of the person who trusts you the most and then when she's not looking, stick it to anything with two legs and a hole. thats all.
like i said, nothing wrong with being a player as long as your straight forward about it

Yes, that is the "correct" way to go. However, I am going to choose the more difficult path. I don't want part with this woman. It is me that is the "bad one" in the relationship, not her.

Not to use your response as an excuse, but I went down the right path 3 times and was scorched. I know it's a childish response on my behalf, but I suppose I'm getting some of what's coming back to me, and will then put this woman on her pedestal where she truly belongs (for me).

Sad/selfish? Yes. Am I fooling myself? Perhaps. Am I still sane, and happy? That's all that really matters to me right now. 😬

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by ThePittman
Never said I was stronger, if you remember I said that you were not weak because you are not trying to resist but that you are being disrespectful toward your GF.

No, I said you were stronger. 😉

And yes, I would say that I'm disrespecting her when I cheat on her. However, my problem-not hers.

PVS Restricted

Originally posted by BobbyD
It is me that is the "bad one" in the relationship, not her.

if you know you're going to continue cheating on her, how is it that you feel you're doing her a favor by not letting her go? that is mindblowingly arrogant, and to try to pass it off as self sacrificing and virtuous? dude, you really need to sit down and ponder this for a long time.

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by PVS
if you know you're going to continue cheating on her, how is it that you feel you're doing her a favor by not letting her go? that is mindblowingly arrogant, and to try to pass it off as self sacrificing and virtuous? dude, you really need to sit down and ponder this for a long time.

Yes, I am warped. What can I say? Please don't make this a conversation of what's right n' wrong. I know better, but simply refuse to do what is right....right now.

Kudos to you, PVS...could use more friends like you, PVS and Soleran....more positive forces in my life, though I still have some good ones anyhow.

Call me a bad apple, what else can I say?

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by BobbyD
Yes, I am warped. What can I say? Please don't make this a conversation of what's right n' wrong. I know better, but simply refuse to do what is right....right now.
Kudos to you, PVS...could use more friends like you, PVS and Soleran....more positive forces in my life, though I still have some good ones anyhow.
Call me a bad apple, what else can I say?

Ooops, left you out too Pittman.

But, enough is enough. I've opened up my soul. Back to the topic, please.

Madman_V3N0M Dreaming of a red X-mass

Can someone please sumarise all the opinions in this thread since I've got no time to read it and I think that it has actually grown by 2 pages since I started writing this post.

ThePittman "Pitt Happens"

Originally posted by BobbyD
No, I said you were stronger. 😉
And yes, I would say that I'm disrespecting her when I cheat on her. However, my problem-not hers.

It is her problem as well if not more because I’m sure she would have more of an issue with it then you because if she didn’t you would have already told her about it. It will hurt her far more then you, while you are still dealing with your “issue” she thinks that you are being faithful to her and maybe has feelings that this is going someplace, if you wait till you get your little “problem” in order and then she finds out (which she will) then you can probably write it off, the best thing is to either end it now or tell her about it.

PVS Restricted

Originally posted by BobbyD

But, enough is enough. I've opened up my soul. Back to the topic, please.

no, you just opened your fly

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by PVS
no, you just opened your fly

😂

Funny guy.

BobbyD Animal Lover

Originally posted by ThePittman
It is her problem as well if not more because I’m sure she would have more of an issue with it then you because if she didn’t you would have already told her about it. It will hurt her far more then you, while you are still dealing with your “issue” she thinks that you are being faithful to her and maybe has feelings that this is going someplace, if you wait till you get your little “problem” in order and then she finds out (which she will) then you can probably write it off, the best thing is to either end it now or tell her about it.

It's not like I have a steady on the side, that I normally go to. I just take what falls into my lap, that's all.